Kaylets, what a horrible question! I think at first I'd opt to just stay home--but then I thought I'd give it a try. People mature and mellow with age, right? Just how fabulous is this vacation?!
Hopelessly behind on keeping up w/posts. Scanning not good enough and don't even get that done. A few sleepless nights when I get home should help me catch up a bit.
I am homesick (I really like my place, my friends, neighbors, family, et al) but Kaylets is right. Just too darn cold and miserable for me to come home. Or rather, to take dh home. He's cold down here. I know people think I'm odd to be willing to give up a "vacation" and go home. But two months is a bit long for me. Actually was warm enough yesterday and today that I exercised in the outdoor pool - first water exercising in two months and my body said thanks. But to cool down again.
ANYWAY - all you ailing royals, please feel better. And may little rays of sunshine poke out and brighten those with all sorts of problems (special hugs, Wood Nymph) - sure seem to be a lot.
Empress, I'll be on the NOLA thread as soon as I can remember to bring my cheat sheet to the library with me. I think I'm on my 5th lap.
drive by post. it has been a vey busy day at work. just got a call from sis and she is now on temporary bed rest becuase her blood presure went uo too high. yikes.
now i must get back to working and eating yogurt (organic plain fat free, aka not everybodies cup of tea).
So happy to see so many posts from the s but only up to flybye responses ... in brevity mode ... extra assignments and a bunch of weird items!!!!
Yea, Cerise it be super frigid here .... we are chilled to the bone ... except the winter visitors, who are wearing shorts as usual! No offense to any WVs who are reading this, it's just that the blood gets thin (literally, the platelets get further apart or something) when you live here all year. The temp did go down into the 30s last night methinks, but it won't do that again for awhile ... usually it is a bit warmer in February ... I am totally sick of this weather and might as while move to Alaska! Om shanti! (Sorry thou be ailing, get well!)
Arabella, thanks for the update on ds! Sorry he's having a setback but that may just be par for the course and he'll start making progress now that you're seeing he gets the meds consistently.
K, I can't find the speech or even see where thou posteth it! Sorry. Can you email it to me? I'd like to read it!
I'm behind on QOD seemingly ... re the fear one, there's not much I'm afraid of that I wouldn't try, but I think the horrible sickening kind of "challenges" they do on some of the reality shows (although I must admit I watch the better shows of this genre, although "better" is relative ... I like "Survivor" and some of the Mole series) are disgusting and demeaning and I they could not pay me enough to do that. Re the vacation thing, I don't know that I've ever had any really, really bad dates (boring, though) so sure, I'd go!
Zadie ... sorry to be jumping around like this but I saw your pronoun conundrum ... actually (could be wrong) I think that currently just using "they" is acceptible stylistically even if you don't really mean it to be plural ... "it" is used for animals who don't have a name ... more than you wanted to know, but ...
Wildfire!!!! Glad thou be finding thy own way to deal with thy cold! Was looking for the crossed fingers icon re thy job but can't find it, so consider it there anyhow!!!! Keeping them crossed for thee!
Anagramatic, I can see how thou wouldst want to come home after too long a period away ... it's always that way for me, too! But glad you are enjoying thy time anyway!!!! Keep having fun!
Wsw, it always makes me feel good know you are here! Sorry about thy technical difficulties acting up but glad you are getting into the home you want!
Punkin, Seattle Jo, and any and all MIA s, hope all's going ok and that you find the way back to the palace soon.
K, haven't seen Mysteriouso Bicycle Man lately ... the bonfires are continuing sporadically and they'll likely have one tomorrow if it's not so cold ... they aren't eating out there ... they just look at the fire, shake hands and drink beer ... I don't see the point but as I said, I've started to enjoy the "company" since they're out there until 1-2 a.m. ... they're not loud or bothersome, I just worry about the safety issue. They've recently acquired a nice big puppy who looks hopefully over at my Old Dog to see if she wants to be friends (she doesn't, she just stares at the pup but doesn't go greet her) ... anyway since they have a dog, they can't be all bad!
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Yo! Here I am w/2-in-a-row again! Just a note to say K sent me her speech and I loved it ... as thou seest, I've snagged a quote for my sig line!
Kaylets, I sent thee a pm but wanted to say I think you've scored a real hit there!!!! Great job!
TO ALL S : I'D LIKE TO PROPOSE A NEW MAIN THREAD BE STARTED. IF NO ONE OBJECTS, I THINK WE SHOULD DO THIS ON SUNDAY (first day of week). THIS ONE IS QUITE LONG AND IT'S HARD TO FIND WHAT WE'RE LOOKING FOR, IMO! ANYONE MIND? SORRY TO SHOUT!
I'm off to the food thread ... I've decided to take a hiatus from weigh-in this week again and consider myself still at 151! Also bowing out of NOLA with a grand total of approximately 3 laps ... Anagram, thy 5 laps is a fantastic job ... thou be Trekker Woman!!!!!! If I had a superwoman smilie, I'd use it, but anyhow !!!!!
Working early and late today, determined to do gym today as I was all whiny and wimpy with the trainer and hope to shape up this week!!!! Yowza!
Really slept in today -- appears to be a trend ....
Empress....thanks for the kind words... and I am very touched that you are using a phrase in you signature line... wow!
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Today's thought :
"Sometimes things which at the moment may be perceived as obstacles ---and actually may be obstacles, difficulties or drawbacks--can in the long run result in such good end which would not have occured it it had not been for the obstacle."
--Steve Allen
Question of the day :
"When was the last time you spent money frivolously?"
--Table Topics by the Pampered Chef
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Am seeing lots of posts here and elsewhere about "Passing As Thin" by Frances Kuffel....a true account of a woman as she loses about 170 lbs...
Our library lets us use their database and I hope to be there at opening to grab the copy that's on the shelf ( as of closing last night)....
Always loved the library but then felt as though the ultimate was to have the library here in my house.... now I'm realizing...unless its a book you use as reference or to study... I've begun to realize unless a book is shared and read and shared again.....I feel as though its wasteful to hold onto books just for the sake of "having"... Don't get me wrong... I don't mean leatherbound, signed editions...
Wonder how much I'm motivated by not wanting to dust them!
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Read a post which shared this website.... International recipes... I looked at the Vietnamese recipes and saw a few w/ Tofu ... am always looking to add to our favorites as I find tofu ususally stays with me so much longer and is so point friendly and so inexpensive.... Think I'm in love! http://www.asiarecipe.com
Need to get dressed so I can be at the library when they open!
Today I be back to remembering who I am and what I'm about and am going to take some steps to be kind to me ... starting with an announcement that I'm dumping the WW points system and going back to counting calories and eating in a modified Body For Life pattern.
Setting up my challenges on the demon food thread ... will keep track of exercise there as well unless the NOLA be revived. We are almost at Valentine's Day ... I am not at 145 pounds but that's ok. The quest continues.
That's all about me, sorry. Hope everyone is well. Dost thou s want to start a new thread? Advise at thy pleasure!
Here is the morning thought of the day .... little bit longer but I really enjoyed rereading it this am and thought you might too:
This was written by an 83 year old...The last line says it all.
Dear Bertha,
I'm reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting in the yard and admiring the view without fussing about the weeds in the garden. I'm spending more time with my family and friends and less time working. Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experiences to savor, not to endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and cherish them.
I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, or the first Amaryllis blossom.
I wear my good blazer to the market. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries..
I'm not saving my good perfume for special parties, but wearing it for clerks in the hardware store and tellers at the bank.
"Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary; if it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now.
I'm not sure what others would've done had they known they wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take for granted.
I think they would have called family members and a few close friends. They might have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past squabbles.
I like to think they would have gone out for a Chinese dinner or for whatever their favorite food was.
I'm guessing; I'll never know.
It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I knew my hours were limited. Angry because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and parents often enough how much I truly love them. I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives.
And every morning when I open my eyes, I tell myself that it is special. Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God.
If you received this, it is because someone cares for you.
If you're too busy to take the few minutes that it takes right now to forward this, would it be the first time you didn't do the little thing that would make a difference in your relationships? I can tell you it certainly won't be the last.
Take a few minutes to send this to a few people you care about, just to let them know that you're thinking of them.
"People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends don't need to hold hands because they know the other hand will always be there."
I don't believe in miracles. I rely on them.
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance.
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Then, this morning, Finally caught up w/ a best friend...we live 2 doors away but btwn work, home, etc., we just got toghether to exchange holiday gifts... as we went shopping... don't know if anyone has seen the promos for the Dr Phil show for this Monday... The show is about this lady who has asked Dr Phil to help her lose weight... I don't know how much she weighs or how tall she is so I can't guess but the extra weight is up and down her legs, even hanging below her ankles... I don't know her story but know there are many reasons such a weight gain could happen....
I am hoping Dr Phil will have a place on his website so people can send supportive emails to this lady because I think I know how she must feel....
Anyway... we saw a lady who was very tall but also carrying so much extra weight that it hung below her knees... It was pretty early to be in the grocery store and I wanted so much to approach her and just give her a sign of a friendly face but then again... how do you approach someone you dont' know??? As luck would have it, her cart was blocking my cashier and I turned her cart just a tiny bit to get by, saying"
You don't mind if I move this a little bit do you?" and she was immeadiately, for apologetic... but I just said, " No problem, just need to move it a little"... and she said something else.. and her voice was so lovely that it made you think she would have a beautiful singing voice....
I don't know if I made any kind of difference in her life today... I hope so...
I know how many times I would've loved to interact with folks but shyness held me back..
I can only imagine how self concious this lady was....
I know how much my support means to me, its great when things go well and a godsend when things are not...
This is why we need to share our stories..
so that others know it can be done....
Loved both thy stories, Kaylets ... one of my fav songs is the one that goes " ... and if you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance, I hope you dance!"
Pretty sad today, but dancing anyway!
As posteth on the demon food thread, I got real and got on the scale and have only gained two pounds. Feeling good about my decision to go back on a calorie counting program rather than the points, which make me feel sometimes that 100 cal is not 100 cal, when it really is! I posted a 21-day challenge on the food thread.
Here's my prayer for today: Artemis, please help w/my 21-day challenge of no more than 1500 calories six days a week and no more than 1500-2000 one day a week, plus 360 total exercise minutes per week! Thanks!
Hope this offendeth no one. It's a real prayer ... not being flippant. I will log my 21-dayer on the food thread.
Thanks for the input on starting a new thread ... I always hesitate to take the initiative to do it ... maybe someone else will do it on Monday? Hmmmm?
I've set a new weight goal for pre-Easter ... we need to do some thinking about holiday challenges, dinna ye all thinketh?
Worrying about Seattle Jo who has been away some time ... SJ, please reporteth to palace to let the s know thou art well and that thou still loveth us!
Kaylets, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I know what you mean, There's so many people I'd like to approach, but shyness holds me back sometime, or I don't want to seem weird. Garry had a great idea recently--to have cards made up to hand out to people who make the effort to make the world a bit nicer, whether it's a cashier, a bank teller, a stranger. It sounds really corny, I know, but wouldn't it be fun?! We're going to do it!!! I'll let you know how the Great Experiment goes.
Amarantha, Thanks for sharing your prayer. I'm reading a book now called "The Prayer Diet", by Matthew Anderson. I think You're familiar with him, Kaylets? I have a few little rituals that help me along. One is starting my day with a 'purifying' cup of water---with the prayer that it'll set the tone for the day, and that water becomes a healing elixer. And my coffee mug at work has an inspiring goddess image on it too! We can find our inspiration anywhere!
No, Eydie... Matthew Anderson was a new name to me although I do get an email from Ediets...just a Daily Tip... Let me know what you think of the book.. perhaps I can borrow from the Library...
But yes, I just posted to a brand new WW this am about how we can't rely on the scale for motivation ( too fickle) and that I need a fresh shot of motivation nearly every day which is why I am so often here..
Yes, I am worried about Seattle Jo as well.... and did I miss a post?? Is the Q of Friday on vacation.?? I miss her too.
Making Mushroom Barley Soup.... and Dh made Whole Wheat Bread... we don't even bother with the pans anymore as they too are fickle and no matter what we've tried... won't let the bread go... DH even made little loaves similiar to roll.... I saw at the Panera restaraunt how they hollow out a small loaf to use it for the soup bowl and have been enamored ever since.
hmmm... another love reference... The Big V day approaches...
Our temps outside are right at the freezing mark and its raining on top of thin layer of snow....as we speak... 
Yo!
s but only up to flybye responses ... in brevity mode ... extra assignments and a bunch of weird items!!!!
No offense to any WVs who are reading this, it's just that the blood gets thin (literally, the platelets get further apart or something) when you live here all year. The temp did go down into the 30s last night methinks, but it won't do that again for awhile ... usually it is a bit warmer in February ... I am totally sick of this weather and might as while move to Alaska! Om shanti! 
(Sorry thou be ailing, get well!)
Just a note to say 
Also bowing out of NOLA with a grand total of approximately 3 laps ... Anagram, thy 5 laps is a fantastic job ... thou be Trekker Woman!!!!!! If I had a superwoman smilie, I'd use it, but anyhow 
!!!!!
