Hola Chickies.
Well we got more moved over the past weekend. I'm so incredibly over moving! But this is it, this weekend is it. DH has the U-haul rented for Sat and we have extra help because mostly what we have left is the very heavy or the very large stuff.
Today DH and decided to take today off from moving/packing. TG. I think I got through to him when he said that he had to go back to work today. I said, "Your lucky, you get a break from moving/packing. I don't. I work 24/7, no breaks, no days off." That is when he decided to have us both take the day off. It was a good day to do so, my back is killing me.
But this past weekend I didn't lift anything heavy. I refused. I only lifted the light things or packed or unpacked. One tub our friend lifted off told me it was "light" Um he LIED! But that was the only thing I lifted that way heavy.
I totally wish we could just completely pass on doing T'giving. I know that sounds awful, but we just don't have the time. DH only has the 4 days off for T'giving, then he has to travel the week after for at least one day and we have to be out of this place by the 1st.
But with MIL in the nursing home on T'giving, we both feel like skipping it would definitely not go over well with her. I mean she prob would say to our faces, "Oh its fine and I understand" but as soon as we left, we both know she'd tell FIL that was devastated. So my thought is to try doing it on Wed. evening instead of Thursday. That way it would be over with and we would have Thursday - Sunday to get the move done. Like I said I know it sounds awful.
I talked to my mom, she is off Thursday & Friday. She said she'd help me unpack. But I don't wanna mention her coming up because I don't wanna stress my MIL out by thinking that we'd bring her by to visit her. So I figure its better to not mention it. Not that they don't get along, but well, you just have to understand my MIL I suppose. lol.
So if we have our "T'giving" on Wed night, then I could go and get my mom early Thursday so we'd have her to help me out most of the day Thursday and Friday. Then take her home Friday evening. But if we have our T'giving on Thursday, even if its early, like at noon, I won't have my mom here until about evening time by the time we're done eating and the going out to get her and back. If we have it later like in the evening, I may as well not go and get her until Friday and then what is the point if I have to just take her back that night? I dunno. I don't wanna sound selfish, but I wish we could wait until our move was over to have T'giving, it would just be a lot easier and then we could enjoy it. At this point, we will just be continually thinking, "can we go now? how soon is too soon to leave?" and we shouldn't think that way, esp on a holiday. But it can't be helped when we have so much to do.
Francie -- Ooo so sorry you got hurt! ((GENTLE HUGS))
Jules -- Thanks. That stinks you had to work on Sunday, but its nice to have the extra time off. MIL is doing extremely well in the nursing home. Doing therapy everyday, eating, socializing, she's doing great!
Sue -- Hoping your Mom is feeling better.

My mil usually doesn't eat at home either, but they are making her eat in the nursing home, drs orders. They have her drinking ensure twice a day too. Has she tried that? MIL likes the chocolate flavored kind only. I hope you and yours has a great T'giving!
Cristina -- Nope not all moved yet, this weekend is it. The big stuff gets moved this weekend, that is about what is left. We got everything else. I will be so extremely GLAD once its done! Even if it takes me months to unpack, which I hope it doesn't, but even if it does, I do not even care, I will just be glad when we are done and at one place! LOL. IKEA is pretty awesome. They have great stuff and some things aren't that expensive. Yeah it is 71 degrees here. I'm glad its been nice, since we are moving, it helps having the good weather, but I'm afraid that when we get hit, its not going to be pretty! LOL.
Ta Ta Ladies!!
