[Shopaholic1204]

I need some advice please.


I dunno if I mentioned this or not..but awhile ago, I wrote to my cousin and apologized to her. All I got in response was a "thank you". It kinda made me mad, but whatever..I just figured she wasnt ready to say it back to me..and I moved on.

Well..today I checked my hotmail, and she sent me a email. This is what it said:

Dear Frances,

I want us all to get along so we can start having fun again together!!!!

what do you think??

Sarah

I'm not sure what to do. I know things will be different between all of us again. But it would be nice to be back on friendly terms again. I honestly, do not want to see them for awhile though. I'm so confused right now..I dunno what to say to her...

[tommysgirl18]

just popping back in here.........but you ladies were very chatty while I was gone!

Francie~ I love snickerdoodles! If I am thinking right, that is the movie with music by Andrew Lloyd Webber, isn't it? I saw pieces of it a long time ago.

not too much going on here really.......I think Wood Chuck, I mean Marissa, was the only one that took a nap today. So, it was an early bedtime for the boys. Which was nice anyways since they turned into devil spawn by the time they were ready for bed.

I think I forgot to mention......but earlier they decided to make pancakes.....together, but in separate rooms. Brandon was in the kitchen with the syrup on the floor! and Logan was in the living room sitting on the couch with the dumped box of pancake mix! You could of made some pancakes when I put them into the bath tub!

[Sassy_Chick]

Hi Ladies and Many many Thanks.

I was feeling really low again before logging on here........but thanks you all, you truly touched me by your kind comments. I feel like the biggest baby though, weeping away. lol. Can't help it. I feel like I've been pulled back in time about *gulp*20 yrs or so.......I dunno I always thought that this sort of thing would stop when you were an adult, but I guess some people never grow up.

I am still sick, I can't help it, its just how my body reacts I guess when I get really really upset. So I called off sick tonight at work, I just didn't feel like going in when I am sick and everything.

I am seriously thinking though about doing some serious, serious major job hunting this weekend and seeing if anything at all can pans out. I am even thinking about going back to work for Wally World. I know I can't stand all day long anymore being a cashier, but maybe they would find me something I could do? I am just so so so *literally* sick of work right now I can't even fathom going back but you know how it is, we got bills to be paid, so I can't just quit without having something else, even if I don't get paid as much as I do now, anything is better than nothing at all............

DH goes into work in the morning, so at least I will have someone to see if anything goes on or if anything is said.

Now maybe this was the huge gigantic kick in the @$$ I needed, yes it was a painful one, but I am gonna be doing some research and I am gonna change. It may not be right away, but it will happen and I'm doing it for me, not for anybody else. I am also thinking about going into counseling. This whole thing has brought up a whole of bunch of emotions that I have buried deep down and I think I need to work those out.

Or maybe just keep things the way they are and with how my body reacts to stress, I'll lose weight that way! lol. That is honestly how I lost weight in HS. I got so stressed that I could not eat hardly at all. My mom would have to beg me to eat something. I know that isn't the healthy way though and as you all are very aware, it didn't last either.

My DH did come out afterwards and apologized for not saying more, he was half-asleep.......So we did talk about it.

Anyways. I surely do appreciate all your kind and wonderful comments.

I sure wish we could all work somewhere together, wouldn't that be cool?!!

[Shopaholic1204]

Mindee~Yes..the music is by Andrew Loyd Webber. Its this dvd..http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Christ-S...3250227&sr=8-1 Its a pretty good movie. That is so funny about the kids trying to make pancakes, LOL!!! Even though, I probably would've barfed at the smell of syrup, lol.

Sassy~You should totally look for another job. You deserve to work someplace that doesnt make you all stressed out. I wish I could stop eating when I got stressed out, lol. You should at least eat a salad or some fruit or something light.


Sooooo...I talked to Fonzo again tonight. He called me during So You Think You Can Dance..but that was okay, lol. He's feeling better from yesterday. He even gave me a homecoming date thats been floating around. So I hope it sticks and they'll come home on that day.

So ya..nothing else to say really...TTYL!!

[Sassy_Chick]

Francie.......I plan on looking for another job asap. Its ridiculous to have to go through this for a stupid job when there are other jobs out there. I have stomach problems to begin with, I really don't need this extra stress to make me feel worse.

I am thinking about doing the Raw Food Diet? At least until my tummy is feeling better.........I dunno I need to do something. Its not only for my weight and health, but my stomach can't take the bad foods anymore, I think is officially "on strike" right now.

I also need to give up *gulp* pop completely, diet and otherwise. Its just not good for my tummy. So water and maybe just suck it up and drink the Crystal Lite. My DH loves the stuff, I can't stand it........But you gotta do what you gotta do.........Too bad I don't like Cold Cereal, I could do the Special K diet......

[suetalks]

Sassy- Again, hugs to you for what you are going through. I think you are coming up with some good plans out of this mess however. The first being to find another job. Also, like Francie says, you have to eat, so just make it something light that you like. Too bad you don't like cereal...that is my salvation at times when I am hungry/stressed. I reach for a bowl of cereal and skim milk. Or even a piece of toast with light topping. My comfort foods. You will find the right path for yourself, I have confidence in you. (Listen to me Missy, I am old enough to be your Mother!!)

Francie- Yay for having a date for Fonzo to return. How did the cookies turn out?

Mindee- Laughing here about the boys making pancakes. Just think another year and Marissa will be right in there with them. Maybe she will get the jelly or the eggs. LMAO. Okay, okay, maybe it ISN"T funny if you are the one to have to clean it up. Sure is humorous from where I am sitting though.

Susan- Good luck in court with the ex. Sounds like a fun morning...not. I have been to court once in my life, to get a divorce, and that was enough for me. So ugly! I bet Gaby is so excited about summer and being with Mommy. The zoo sounds like a fun day. My DH hates zoos, so since my grands are grown I don't go at all.

Cristina- Another thing I miss, Little League. Those were some fun days. I'm like you, I would not have taken a chance with the car. Hope it is fixed and good to go. My back window messed up yesterday...went down and won't go all the way up. It is power and it made a terrible noise. The other back one did that 2 years ago and cost $400. for a new motor. Yikes. We are trading this car in sometime soon, so might not fix it...let the dealer.

Katy- Did you all have fun at the park? You are sure getting the exercise in. I would like to find an aerobics or exercise class, but don't want to pay for a gym. What type pedometer do you have coming? I am not thrilled with the cheapy I bought. I still think it robbed me...but this morning I walked and it seems to have done okay. Got 2 miles in before coffee. If I got steps for time on the computer I would be one skinny chick.

Jules- I also don't think you are bad for wanting your daughter to be with a guy who treats her right. She needs a partner to be there for her. Someone who will help instead of needing her help 24/7. If her heart is with Dave then I certainly hope he has changed. (and who needs a nut job for a MIL?) ha

Tammy, Clara, where did you girls run off too? I hope if you DID run off it involves sun, sand and margaritas. Hurry back.....

Being lazy after a walk and picking up around the house. I have to go to the Dr. this afternoon, so yuck! I hate getting the full body "look over" by the dermatologist. Just creepy. But I am 5 years cancer free, so I will put up with the check-ups. Some days I do wish I could bask in the sun...but I never did do that, so guess it just sounds appealing since I can't. Ha. Sunscreen should be your best friend ladies, for you and your little ones. (my public service announcement.) Now...Mother Sue is going to get some work done.

[suetalks]

Francie- I forgot to put my 2 cents in on the advice you requested. I am all for forgiving and moving on to spend time with family. Especially if this is someone who was very close with you in the past. Now, I don't know the situation that caused the problems, so you have to be the judge on the severity of the actions. I do know there are some things that can not be forgiven, but it is worth a try if you are missing the closeness of the family. Just my point of view...and by no means the right one for everyone.

[FrouFrou]

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