Ok! So, I haven't lost anything yet but I don't think I have gained, if I gained it was just a pound and I weighed myself once I ate at the doctor's.
I do wonderfully with bread in the morning, it doesn't make me hungry until later though so I have to keep an alarm on my phone to make sure I have my snack. I have been trying this new method, I figured if I can't add more fiber because the fruit serving is limited, then fat would help. I started eating my snack of fruit after breakfast, about an hour and a half or tops two hours after it, with a half portion of walnuts. So I have 7.5 walnuts with half a cup of fat free greek yogurt, some splenda for taste, and usually I also have half a cup of milk with coffee, but most of the time I have green tea.
I sometimes don't WANT fruit (this is how I know it is not a craving) for a snack and just have yellow tomatoes with two low fat cheesesticks along with my coffee with milk and then have my fruit later after I eat lunch as dessert.
This is working out really well as far as cravings go, when I don't eat lunch when I should it makes me hungry but sometimes that happens to all of us, we have things to do.
Next week I am supposed to be adding something else, I am thinking I will be doing popcorn with tomatoes on the side and maybe my latte, just to see how it goes. I might add another grain but only with lunch.
I have to say I have reduced the amount I eat at dinner, because it really screws with me and doesn't let me sleep at night if I have say a burger, no matter how small, for dinner. I eat my heaviest meal at lunch, I still have my "peanut butter cup" (no sugar added fudgesicle with a tablespoon of peanut butter my husband makes from raw peanuts himself) as dessert, but I mostly have a really really light dinner with half a can of tuna and tomatoes, onions, and celery chopped right into there (I use low fat mayo).
I want to up my veggie intake at dinner, although I am already doing a lot of veggies with the celery and the tomato, I still like sweet mini bell peppers and I usually have them with a little bit of low fat cream cheese.
Cravings have been conquered, the only time I had more where when I ate an orange, I take it I better eat that after a meal and not just as a snack. A peach was fine as long as I had it with walnuts. Berries are always fine for me now.
I discovered oatmeal in the morning doesn't agree with me, I am not greatly fond of it but when I have it, I will make sure I have it in between bites of eggs (I really like eating buffet style!) or just have it last after everything else in the morning.
My meat cravings have dimished, I don't want to eat tuna all the time for dinner so at times I might have a smaller serving of what I had for lunch.
I just got diagnosed with fibromyalgia. It sucks, but at least it's not my lupus flaring and it's not my organs paying for it. Basically, exercise for weight loss is pretty much impossible now *sigh*, I have been doing yoga and such and want to meditate to just have some time for myself. I will post links below. I have a long way to go, one thing that I think is REALLY important chicks: my rheumy told me that you don't get to lose weight really fast anyway, specially if you have PCOS and now fibro and can't move because of pain. She said you would see a loss until several months passed, it hasn't been very long for me, barely a month and two weeks or so.
So do not despair! I wish we had an autoimmune disease spot on here so I could link these things to people like me, gatita, thanks for keeping in touch

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Here are some meditation podcasts:
http://marc.ucla.edu/body.cfm?id=22
And if you go to
http://www.calm.com/ and click on 2 or 10 min meditation it really is nice to just take 2 min a day to do something for yourself, 2 min! 10 min is doable but you are more likely to do 2, I know I would.
Speaking of which I am going to try the 10 min! Wish me luck!