Hi there
I have not tried lots of systems, but found Weight Watchers very good, as it's not a diet as such, but a good way of finding out what to eat and how much, in a healthy way. You don't have to give anything up, just be aware of how much you can treat yourself with those things you really can't do without. It also gives you a good idea of how exercise can help, and a way of measuring the amount you do

. I'm sure there's plenty of others out there waiting to tell you about their favourite methods too

. This message board is really good for mutual support, as once you have subscribed to a thread, you will be emailed every time anyone else posts a reply. So that's a good start already

. Let us know how you're getting on and you'll get lots of encouragement
Good Luck