Deb!! Hi and welcome to 3FC!!!
You will find excellent support here!! I currently do South Beach Diet which many think is low carb but it is NOT!! It is a good carb and good fat diet, I have fallen in love with it as a way of eating! Have you looked in to it? But just try and find a program that works with you and fits your lifestyle
I just had my second child in october so I know how that struggle goes

Have you also checked out the WLS boards here? Jiffypop is a Moderator there and such an inspiration, I find myself just looking for her posts, even though I haven't had WLS.
If you ever need to talk or need advice, I'm here just send me a pm!
Good Luck!
Michelle