I have no idea where else to ask this question, so I figured what better place than the support board
Here's the thing - I have no idea what size/measurement is good for me. Ordinarily I would go by the law of averages, seems logical, right? Well, I'm 6' tall and pretty big-boned (no joke, really big-boned, not just an excuse ), so average won't cut it since I don't quite fit with those dimensions. I'm also fairly large busted (38DD) and it's never fluctuated with my weight, so even when I lose it will probably still be there. I never measured myself before I started this WOE and exercising, always relying on the scale. I'm glad I'm measuring, it's given me more motivation etc. but I have no idea where I'm at or where I'm going as far as that is concerned.
Currently I'm measuring at 45.0"-35.5"-47.5". I'm hoping there is at least one other person out there who has/had something close to my dimensions who can help me out. Is 23-25" too low to shoot for in the waist with my size? Size 8-10 too low? Average? What? I have no idea. I hate saying that Seems like I should know my body better, but I've never worn women's clothes so I have no idea what my size would/should be. I know I need to just shoot for a size where I'm comfortable without trying to fit into the norm, but humor me - I need to feel normal Thanks!
That's going to vary wildly with your body composition. Two women can be the same weight and height but have different measurements (and wear different sizes) if they have different body fat percentages.
I've never worn "regular" women's clothes either, and even if I had, it wouldn't matter, because my body now is different than it was in the past. Rather than set a goal at a particular size or weight, my REAL goal is a certain body fat %. The recommended healthy % for most women is 18% to 25%. So, my first goal is to get to 25%. After that, I'm just going to see if I feel it's possible to go lower. I don't care, and can't predict, what my weight or size might be at that time. It's body fat % that really matters.
Wow! I'd love to be 6' tall.... anyway, I have to say, size 10 is probably going to be too small for you. That's my goal, at 5'6". Size 10 might also be too short for you in the arms and legs, and not enough room in the shoulders. And I have to say, 23" - 25" in the waist sounds awfully tiny for 6' tall. I could be wrong, you may have a body that naturally settles there. Only you can judge if that's likely-- look at some of your tall close relatives who are at a lower weight. Do they tend to be that small? I think it's important to compare yourself only to other people in your gene pool. That way you'll get an idea of your natural potential.
There are some tall ladies here, and just off the top of my head I think their goals tend to be in the 160 - 180 range. Obviously that varies a lot from person to person, with body composition, as the previous poster said.
You might send a PM to Aphil, as she is a professional seamstress and knows the technical aspects of the clothing business. There is also a poll called "Ideal Size?" in the polls section further down on this page-- it addresses this topic well. And try the BMI and bodyfat calculators on this site and out on the web, that will give you a good place to start thinking about where you want to be. Good Luck!
Last edited by SeekInnerThinChick; 06-04-2004 at 11:49 AM.
Personally, I'd just say to play it by ear and find a size/weight that *you* are comfortable with and that you can maintain easily - KWIM? Don't worry about what others think or what the models in the magazines look like or say they weigh or whatever. I hear ya on the big boobs - they run in my family too! That's either good or bad, depending on your POV.
Anyway...I wouldn't focus on a scale number. I'm going to use myself as an example - at 5'4", my weight according to BMI and all that should be in the 110's-120's. However, with time, I've found that my Maintainable Weight is around 150. I can get as low as 143-145, but last time I did that, my period stopped for over 6 months. Besides, I'm a size four at 150, so no problems with clothes shopping. (I'm a realist, so I do realize that sizes have changed - my size four would have probably been a size 8 or 10 not so long ago...remember the old "I Love Lucy" episode where Lucy was starving herself to get into a dress in order to be in Ricky's show? The dress was a size 12 - this was in 1951...and Lucille Ball always had a gorgeous dancer's figure, even up until the year she passed away. So there ya go.)
There's a snippet from a book I've often quoted titled "Get Thin Slowly" from Michael Fumento's Fat of the Land. Check it out...
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Get Thin Slowly
...certainly it's better to stay down [in weight] once you're down. And apparently one "secret" to doing this is to go down slowly.
Wayne Callaway, M.D., notes that marketing studies conducted by one weight-loss organization found that, when dieting, most woment expect to lose between 2-3 pounds a week and most men expect between 3-5 pounds a week. If this expectation is unmet, dieters will discontinue the program by the 3rd week. Not for nothing do you hear slogans like Slim-Fast's "Give us a week and we'll take off the weight".
"To remain financially successful, commercial operations try to meet this expectation, even when they know that most of the early weight loss is from water and that a water retention cycle will eventually follow," says Callaway. "Virtually all the experts - from the Surgeon General to well-respected popular health and nutrition writers such as Jane Brody...agree that diets designed to meet these expectations always fail over the long term."
Remember that virtually any diet can cause you to lose weight; the real problem is keeping it off. With that in mind, choose a regimen that emphasizes not speed but permanency. While one often hears that no more than 2 pounds a week should be lost, it appears even this is toomuch for most people who are not extremely obese. (Obviously, the fatter you are, the less of an overall percentage of your fat 2 pounds is. So with some people, 2 or even 3 pounds might be OK.)
George Blackburn, MD, chief of surgical nutrition at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston, is considered one of the nation's foremost authorities on weight loss. He suggests that you begin by aiming to lose no more than 10% of body weight at the rate of no more than a pound a week. Only after maintaining that loss for 6 months and recieving permission from your physician, he says, should you attempt to take off another 10%.
In my case, after I began writing this book I initially lost 14% of my weight, which struck me as a good goal since it brought me to the weight that I was at when I joined the army at age 18. So I went a bit overboard, perhaps, but not by too much. In any case, it brought me down to a good, healthy weight. Then I went conservative and held that weight not for 6 months but for a whole year before trying to drop more. Then I said, "Congratulations, you did it. Now it's time to try and reach your ultimate goal, which is to be not only healthily slim but downright athletic." I'm not advising that for all my readers. But this was what I wanted for myself and I did it.
The main reason to aim for slow weight loss is because you are seeking to permanently change your eating habits. The calorie deficit you create should be close to what will be your permanent calorie level and certainly no lower than 1,200 to 1,300 calories. The further you go below this, the more likely you are to suffer from hunger - and nothing defeats a weight-loss regimen more quickly than hunger.
Another big advantage of slighter reductions in calories is that evidence indicates you may lose somewhat less muscle this way than with sharper calorie restrictions...
Very low-calorie diets may be necessary for those few cases where people need to lose a lot of weight quickly because of serious health problems, such as the need for surgery. Other than this, I believe they have little going for them - though all too many doctors continue to recommend them to patients. Studies comparing the two types of weight loss regimens have found that you definitely get more bang for the buck with less caloric restriction. That is, you lose more fat off your body per calories reduced with milder restriction. Consider severe energy restriction as a jackhammer while lesser restriction is more like a hammer and chisel. You can break up rock more quickly with the jackhammer, but more to your liking with the delicate instruments.
I do keep track of my BF%, and would like to get it down to around 22% give or take a few points. I don't rely on BMI so much becuase it doesn't take bone structure or muscle mass into account, which I don't like.
I do have a sister that's my height, but medium boned. She has about a 20-22 inch waist and wears, I think, a size 6 or so, so maybe 25"/size 10 isn't too low to shoot for for me. I guess I'll just go by the comfort scale. It's a bit too early to think about all that now anyway - I'm just working towards those cute size 12 hip-huggers I bought a few months ago for motivation. I guess I'm just worried about being "big" all my life, LOL. I've always been called "big" even when I didn't have so much extra weight on so I'm just hoping for the impossible there - anybody know a way I can get down to 5'2"?
Better yet, maybe I should just sit down and have a long talk with my mom about all the comments, think that would help? I doubt it - you don't know my mom
LOL you ladies are so funny. Well I am 5-6 and shooting for a goal weight of around 135-140 and a size 9. This was where I was at before when I was thin and I looked really healthy and good. I don't even think I could get down to a size 7 and I really woudln't necessarily want to. I think I would look to thin. When I was that size and weight I think I was like 36-27-36 or so (got some hip). I was very shaply but only a B chest. I really wonder now that I am a C if it will go away once I lose the weight. I am sure it will. I lose first in the arms and waste or stomach area. My thighs well they are a joke and last to go.
How thin can I get?
), so average won't cut it since I don't quite fit with those dimensions. I'm also fairly large busted (38DD) and it's never fluctuated with my weight, so even when I lose it will probably still be there. I never measured myself before I started this WOE and exercising, always relying on the scale. I'm glad I'm measuring, it's given me more motivation etc. but I have no idea where I'm at or where I'm going as far as that is concerned. 
Seems like I should know my body better, but I've never worn women's clothes so I have no idea what my size would/should be. I know I need to just shoot for a size where I'm comfortable without trying to fit into the norm, but humor me - I need to feel normal 
