Firstly, you are not hopeless

Second, weight loss is difficult, but not impossible. If it was, everyone would be overweight FOREVER. It takes lots of patience and self-forgiveness to see it through to the end. I think that the first couple of months are the most difficult. But once your weight starts to fall, you will feel so good about yourself!
Wake up every morning and tell yourself that you are beautiful, unique and that you have so much to offer the world
You'll do fantastic. We all believe you can do it!