OK - Let's start with Chris. I don't know your stats, but I would say you're not eating enough. And what you are eating isn't optimal. I would suggest you add different kinds of carbs instead of the fruit, yogurt and bread. WHY? Well, cuz they don't fill you up and there are better choices for building muscles. Things like barley, beans, oatmeal, yams, potatoes, lentils. You can eat bread, but I would limit it to once a day because it's so processed. Also, if you eat such small amounts, you're going to start to bonk in the gym - trust me!

The girls will tell ya - I wasn't eating enough and was so tired I could hardly move. *SCRATCHHEAD* I couldn't figger it out. Then, I looked at my food and there it was - not enough and not the right stuff. I would think you'd need to up your protein too.
Here is what I eat:
1. 5EW + 1 whole egg, 1C cooked steel-cut oats
2. 1C CC, 1 1/2C Blueberries
3. Ground turkey breast, potato, veggies
4. MRP
5. Tuna, veggies, yam
6. EW + oats
So, if you could post your stats, that would help in figuring out your portion sizes. Thankie!
Now, Livein -
Yes, you may have sugar free gum
Splitting your workout may pose some problems. At the end of the day you may be tired and not want to go back. Something may come up and you won't be able to get back. It's VERY time consuming to do it that way. If you're worried about not having enough time in the morning, you may have to get up a little earlier to get the whole WO in. I'm not sure of your particular reasoning - could be kids, work, etc. You CAN do the whole WO in the PM with great results. Others have.
I would say fruits are OK - ONCE a day.
Stay away from lunchmeat - it's highly processed and loaded with salt. Cook up some turkey breasts or chicken ahead of time on the George Forman grill and you'll be set for the week. Look at the thread "Supplies You Cannot Live Without" It'll give you a list of things folks use everyday.
I would put salad dressing on the NO NO list. If it's Fat Free means it's HIGH in sugar to make up for the flavor lost from the fat. Be very careful - you could try to make your own. Olive oil (very little) along with some spices.
Check the Recipes Thread for Jello info - it's yummy. I use the FF SF banana in my shake to thicken it up. Lanaii (Ilene) has a great recipe for white chocolate pudding w/ CC that's to die for!
Overall - stick to whole, unprocessed foods and you won't go wrong. Well, as long as ya don't eat truckloads!