After I'm done, I'd like to drop about 5-8 pounds of fat. (Yes, I know this will put me toward the very bottom of a healthy weight range. Yes, I'd like to build more muscle and weigh more. But I am not particularly lean right now; my best guess is maybe 22-24%. So I would like to get leaner before I start trying to bulk. And honestly, I'm starting to get weary of the loooooong no-deficit march to leanness.)
I know the drill by now: fat loss is mostly diet, eat enough protein, moderate deficit, keep up the NEAT, coax the last pounds out rather than slamming them out, etc. But for some reason, I'm finding myself really anxious about how to go about my weight lifting while I'm in a deficit this time.
How many training days per week? Rep schemes more in the strength or hypertrophy ranges? Should I continue training in this full-body (NROL4W-type) style, or switch to an upper-lower split? Do I still lift as heavy as I can, or am I going to stress out my body too much doing that? I know that isolation moves aren't the most efficient/effective way to train generally, but I find myself worrying that if I continue with just compound moves, I might not hit all the muscles very well, & open myself up to muscle loss... etc etc.
I know I'm probably making this all more complicated and frightening than it needs to be.
But I'd appreciate any advice / tips / links / etc that our resident experts can offer-- especially any specific pre-made training programs, as I don't know that I have the knowledge I need to put together my own.

I do think I'm particularly pearish (waist 24", each thigh 22"-- oy). Thanks for the tip on the Lyle McDonald; I'll keep it in mind. I started reading his site quite recently & like it a lot.
I do spend more of my time flexing my muscles & feeling like a badass than I do obsessing over my thighs, lol. And I try to be reasonable about what I can expect to attain, as well as maintain, for that matter. I'm going to shoot for a little leaner this summer, but if it's not in the cards, then I'm just going to work harder on self-acceptance.