Hey there Stef!
As you've probably found out by now, even though a lot of us started out with BFL, we've since moved on to other things.
For me personally, I still like to fall back to the BFL way of eating - it's a no-brainer by now. I'm not mathmatically oriented so just eating clean frequent small meals and eyeballing portions works for me just fine. And like Mel, I have long since abandoned the BFL training split, else I would get totally bored by now - nearly two years after the beginning of my first challenge (or 'cycle' as I prefer to call it).
IMO, BFL is a great 'intro to bodybuilding' program for beginners - a lot of gyms (like mine for example!) have so much equipment and those big muscley guys that newbies can get quite intimidated. But we try not to get all 'evangelistic' around here - as you can see by the name change - we started out as the Body for Life forum, then BFL/Bodybuilding, now we're the Ladies who Lift.
I said this last week - a lot of folks on diet programs tend to get really offended if you dare to say something against it, and not just BFL either - I've seen it happen with Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, Atkins, Richard Simmons...the list goes on and on...I think it's just human nature - kind of like belonging to a religion. Here at the LWL forum, we are all doing different programs - lots of cardio, no cardio, low-carb, zig-zag, etc. - but we all have weight training as a common thread! Is that cool or what! And we can all learn from each other.
ANYway, BFL to me is a stepping stone - but one of many. It's helped a lot of folks out there...but we're all human and we're all different - there's defintely no such thing as a 'one size fits all' program IMO!
Okay, I know I was rambling there!!!