I just moved to a new city about 4 hours between the place I grew up and the other city where I went to college for 6 years. Right now is an odd adjustment for me because I'm new to the area, know nobody, and I'm pregnant so I'm not feeling so well very often and don't have the motivation to get out and meet people. We live out in the country so it's not like I can walk next door and meet a bunch of neighbors.
It's frustrating. I'm hoping that I can find some people in the area to get to know who have similar situations as me (young kids). It's so difficult right now though because I'm wishing I were still with all my college friends, but even if they were around I wouldn't fit into the same situation. I know how you're feeling... don't have much advice for ya but sympathize!