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Old 05-06-2010, 07:00 AM   #1  
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Default I have 77 pounds to lose...

I don't really know where to start... I found this forum over a year ago, marvelled at all those people who have lost so much weight... might even have introduced myself, I can't remember... March to July 2009 I really watched my weight, did a lot of sport at the gym, lost some pounds, maybe 15 or so... then I got married in August and on my honeymoon broke my foot, which took about four months to completely heal, so I couldn't do any running and stuff, stopped going to the gym, and besides, my big goal, looking my best on my wedding day, was gone, and so was my motivation...

In February we moved to Berlin, I still haven't found a job, the weather has been awful most of the time and I am getting more and more depressed - I don't have any friends here, I have no job, money is very tight and all I really do is sit at home in front of the computer... I've tried going outside on those few days when the weather was nice, but I feel even more lonely outside in this giant city...

But on the other side I have so much time to concentrate on making healthier eating choices, trying different things, planning meals for when I'm back to work...

And I REALLY need to lose that weight! Looking in the mirror makes me sick...

So I decided to come here again, looking for encouragement, for ideas with how to actually start losing weight again and not make grand plans and then forget all about them within two days...

Damn, I sound terribly sad... but apparently I am... I hope you can cheer me up a bit, people are so wonderfully positive here!
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Old 05-06-2010, 08:26 AM   #2  
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Welcome to 3FC! (Again!)

First of all, from reading your post, it sounds like you need to just forgive yourself for the past and focus on the now and the future. You know that you are capable of losing weight and making healthy choices, so just do it. Don't worry about the opportunities you've missed or what you COULD have done, just get excited about what you're going to do! Your mentality will be a huge key to weight loss, trust me. I just recently fell off the wagon and I'm still struggling to get back on...but one thing I'm doing differently this time is letting go of all the mistakes I've made rather than beating myself up over them and letting myself get negative about it.

You can do this! If I can, you definitely can. And I look forward to hearing of all your success in the very near future....glad you came back!
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Old 05-06-2010, 10:32 AM   #3  
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I joined Metabolic Research Center in August 09. Wore size 22-24 pants, 3x shirt. By December 09 I was in size 14 jeans and a large shirt size. It was almost so quick it made my head spin. Still working on this, but you can make a pretty dramatic change in a pretty short period of time! All the best to you!
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Welcome!!! Keep your chin up and don't give up.......use this site for support and encouragement!!
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Welcome,

It sounds as if you hit a hard spot. I think that is something we all do. I know that I am here for the support we are able to get from others who feel the way we do now or have been in our shoes. I think that you and I along with the many other people here are in the right place and with hard work and determination, we can do anything

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Old 05-07-2010, 07:02 AM   #6  
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Thanks for welcoming me!

@Thinknpretty: I know you are right, but it's difficult. I'm battling depression and anxiety, had to stop my therapy due to moving and right now it's difficult enough to focus on getting up in the morning and not hiding in bed all day...

@Joy2menu: Metabolic balance sounds like a great programme, I've looked into it as well, but right now I hardly have the cash to spend on healthy food, so there's no money left for books, let alone expensive programmes. I'll have to do this on my own.


Well, I've decided on what to do...

There's a programme which my doc recommended (not that I asked for it...) that basically recommends eating carbs only in the mornings, and then low-carb for lunch and dinner. One important rule is to always leave five hours without any food in between meals. I was quite successful with eating totally low-carb last year, but right now for some reason I look at yoghurt or similar in the morning and I decide to rather have nothing at all. And I get really bad cravings for bread and muesli...

So now I can have bread, rolls, muesli in the morning, the only thing I need to figure out what to eat the muesli with, as you shouldn't have dairy in the morning... maybe I'll stick with bread then, with homemade jam or peanut butter. And some fresh fruit.

For lunch, as long as I'm still at home at least, I'll have some fresh fruit with yoghurt; or a salad with nuts and cheese and anything else I can think of; or some stir-fried veggies. I'm not a vegetarian, but I try to eat little meat due to ethical reasons. As my husband loves his meat though, I'm gonna compromise by eating vegetarian when he is not around, i.e. lunches.

For dinner there will be dishes with beans and lentils, and meat, and lots and lots of vegetables! I'm working on putting together ten dinners that are varied and healthy and easy to make, so that when I get back to work I'll have a list to work with, always know what to buy when shopping and always know what to cook in the evening, because when I get home and are exhausted and I don't know what to cook yet, I end up making unhealthy choices.

I'll take care to eat a lot of vegetables and fruit, and have lots of herbal tea in between meals. I love fruit, I love tea, so there shouldn't be too much trouble there. I drink enough water already, always have done (enough meaning a minimum of three liters a day, often more), so no obstacle there, either. (I sometimes curse that, though, as so many people seem to lose weight just by drinking more water...) I will not have Diet Coke anymore, as it's simply not good for my health. I will have alcohol (I know, total no-go, but I need my indulgences, otherwise I'll never stick to this) only once a week! If I want to bake something, I'll make muffins or similar to have for breakfast.

I very much appreciate any ideas and input!

And I have one question: I've seen the blogs, but I would feel far more comfortable documenting what I do in a forum thread... is there a forum for that which I just haven't seen, or do I have to do the blog thingy?
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Old 05-07-2010, 02:48 PM   #7  
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Hi and welcome to 3FC.

Good luck with your goals.

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