Thanks!!!!
I debated joining, but only because of my own head and memories berating me. I had a friend, for a long, long time, who has struggled with weight. If I ever made mention of wanting to lose weight I was told to stop complaining, I'm not as heavy as she is, blah blah blah. A lot of mind drama went on with that relationship, and though it's been a long, long time since I've spoke with her, and I've done my best to eliminate that kind of thinking on my own, I did have the stupid thinking of "OMG, they won't like me because I "only" have 30-40 lbs to lose, that's not "much", I should shut up and not worry."
Whatever! Go away voices! I just realized that I now weigh the same as my husband - who is 7 inches taller than me (and in fabulous shape due to his job

). We have been struggling with secondary infertility since we started trying almost two years ago after our first child. I'm not happy with how I look and feel. I need to do this for me, and that's that.
So I'm very glad to be here! I'm glad to see posts from people in the same situation I am. I'm glad that I'm taking the steps to improve my life-even if one of my goals is to get preggo (and therefore gain weight!).
This place rocks!