Hey Erin!
We have LOTS of places where you can find buddies!
First, check out the 100 lb club, a group of those losing or who have lost around 100 lbs or more. It's a great, supportive group, so take a look!
We also have a 40-somethings club, so you might want to pay a visit there, also!
If you're still in search of a plan, do look around...we have groups/clubs for all kinds of eating plans, so you're bound to find a good fit somewhere. Explore, settle, and keep posting! I can't wait to get to know you better!