thanks everyone for all of your responses.....
I have been reading about body for life (online) the book should be arriving soon, sounds really good. I have about 30 lbs to lose...I have put on aprox 15 lbs since my dad past away in June guess I am eating through my pain

. However, I don't like the way I look and I have also read after 30 you start losing muscle so since i am now 46 years old I need to do some catching up

plus live a better life style with good food/excercise. any suggestions about bfl would be really apprecitated.
thanks again

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cheryl