South Beach Diet Fat Chicks on the Beach!

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Old 04-13-2007, 06:25 PM   #1  
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Arrow Hi...I am back to 3FC! And I want to finally be a success story.

Hello! I'm Lauren.

I have done SBD (and tons of other diets) many times, and while I do really love SB, it seems like every time I lose weight, something happens where I just fall off the wagon and sabotage myself and gain weight again...only to diet again a few months later and continue the frustrating cycle. So, I have found myself (once again) at a place where I look terrible and feel even worse. I am afraid to even try on my "fat jeans" at this point.

I need to take control and be happy with myself. I want to get back to a comfortable weight and maybe even a pair of size 6 jeans. (somehow, they fit me about a year and a half ago--now, not even close)

So, I have decided to give SBD another go...and stick with it past Phase 1 this time. I hope I can do it...It seems like my whole life, I have been trying to lose weight, each time with renewed, and subsequently short-lived confidence and determination. I really need to finally make it work, for so many reasons.

I started PH 1 on Wed. and it's going well so far. 11 days to go! My strategy this time is to be a little more casual about it. If I constantly remind myself that I am dieting and not allowing myself certain foods, I freak out and fall off of the wagon.

Wish me luck! This website is a great tool and source of support.
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Old 04-13-2007, 06:52 PM   #2  
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Lauren You will love it here..This is my 2 time around on SB, just like you and everyone else, fell off the wagon, and gained weight back plus some. I feel that after the first week on phase 1 it gets easier. (Monday I will start phase 2) so take control and post, questions, concerns or just cry's for help....We are all here to help each other.
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Old 04-13-2007, 09:18 PM   #4  
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Nice to see you Lauren!! Jump on in the water's fine. You're story seems to mirror my own, like many others here I'm sure! I lost about 25 pounds on SBD before my wedding in 03, and WISH I could squeeze into that dress again- Heck, who am I kidding- I'd like to be a size 6 too!!! My original weight loss goal was 135 but after seeing some success stories of girls around my height I was like-ya know what, I can do that too- size 6 here I come!!! I starte P1 yesterday, join us on the phase 1 thread. Keep up posted. I have found it helps me to know that I am going to post what I've eaten and there is a3rd party involved. I will tell you the same thing I tell everyone (even non-dieters) Life is full of choices, if you make a bad one there will be another decision to make in 5 minutes and you have a chance to make a better choice. Every drink, snack, or meal presents us with another opportunity to make a good healthy choice that will assist us in our weight loss-if we make an unhealthy choice we need to forget about it and make a better choice at the VERY next opportunity. I haven't been a success story in, well, anything really so I'm going to stand next to you in the winners circle. Hey, it's always a good day at The Beach!!!
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Lauren!

I think one of the best ways to keep yourself on track is to sit down and brainstorm a list of all the ways things didn't work out before. Then figure out what you could do to prevent/deal with each of them. If you found yourself eating bad stuff because you didn't have easy to prepare healthy stuff around, then make sure you do and that the bad stuff isn't around, etc.

In addition, once you reach P2, you can make ANYTHING (except for things that call for carmelizing sugar) in an SBD-safe way. If you can't figure out how, please post a thread with what you're craving and I'd be glad to help you figure out how to make it. That's what's worked well for me with SBD. Sometimes, the SBD version just takes so darn long to prepare that I don't want to bother, but knowing that I COULD keeps me from feeling deprived.

Tifanicole, I your sig quote...that movie is one of my favorites of all time. I forgot that quote and it's a really good one. Thank you for reminding me!

As to the size 6 and pound thing--try to be honest with yourself about how you FEEL and how your body feels--what works for one person might not work for another--but if both people feel and look healthy, no one will see the difference in pounds, you know? The truth is, a numerical weight looks TOTALLY different on each person, even person of the same height and type of body frame. I guess what I'm trying to say is to keep in touch with your body and how you feel and look...you may find that you're thrilled with how you look at 140...or 135 might end up not being the right weight at all. Just make sure that you aren't killing yourself over a number, okay?

That said, be aware that it's not just about losing weight to get to a certain size--you can stay 135 and be all sorts of sizes based on the amount and type of exercise you are doing. Our wonderful moderator Meg points out that she got to her goal weight and after a couple years of holding that same weight, she found herself able to suddenly fit into a size 2!!! She'd continued a regular routine of strength training and cardio for those years and all that work paid off in a much tighter, firmer body! (I've met Meg in person a couple of times and she's gorgeous!!! ) You'll find tons of links all over 3FC for the muscle/fat picture that illustrates how a pound of muscle takes up a lot less room than a pound of fat...and you'll see that it's not just how much you weigh--it's what your weight is made up of, as well! In addition, muscle burns many more calories than fat, even while you sleep...so the more muscle, the better! To gain that muscle, make sure you get enough protein (your body 'eats' muscle and organs to get the protein it needs if you don't get enough through food) and make sure your exercise routine involves strength training.

Hope you have great success this time 'round!

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Old 04-14-2007, 11:34 PM   #6  
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Thank you, everyone! Day 4 went GREAT!
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