Geez, I make a post before bed and a few hours later there are several in-depth, informative, and well-thought-out comments! You do realize this means I won't be able to procrastinate on this as easily, right? Right?
You know what? In retrospect, I think it wasn't Tom Venuto who said you absolutely can't do both at the same time.

My bad! I need to stop capriciously web-surfing!
Depalma and Susan: Oops, hadn't actually read all of Tom Venuto's book yet. Reading Chap. 17 now and it's exactly what I'm looking for!
And you all are right; I'm not going to worry about the possible conflict of trying to build muscle and burn fat. What am I, 150 pounds and trying to get from 25% to 20% body fat?

Not yet!
hrbabe: I'll definitely look into BFL-women now. All the reviews on Amazon dissed it soooo bad, but now I recall they dissed it because it was a watered down version of the original BFL...and well, that turns out to be along the lines of what I'm seeking.
Mmmm, so excited, all sorts of reading and planning to do, getting the brain ready, slacking from work...bah, better get back to work. Thank you! And anyone else, don't think this thread is all over, please contribute your 2¢ if you have it! This whole subject is fascinating.