Hello,
Thank you Lozz *hugs*. My friends wasn't really making fun just about weight or anything, just was making comments I found hurtful about things about me generally. But then again I am a very sensitive person, so maybe I was in the wrong!! I told them I was upset and I think we have resolved it now, I apologise for ranting on again!
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Originally Posted by ieszka
Yeah but like JoseLo, you're morbidly obese still talking about BBQ's and drinking?
In your case you should ask yourself, how badly do you want to live and if you decide that you'd like to live, then I'd do EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING to lose the weight.
It's a huge lifestyle change - start going out more, moving more - I know it's a dread, but really - get a notion in your head, that you've gotta change a lot. And I'm only addressing you because I feel that I've been in your shoes, and just looking at this forum I've noticed you're doing a whole lot of talking, but you're weight is not really moving much... ya know?
Was that for me? I was talking about BBQs and drinking because I like to respond to other people's posts, and MW and Lozz had mentioned these things. Of course I want to live, I have a lovely life and like to continue it... I
know I am morbidly obese, this is why I am trying to do something about it. I know it is a big lifestyle change, I am working on that. I
do get out plenty though, I have a busy work and social life- I'm not some kind of big fat loser or anything. You say I have been talking a whole lots- I hope I haven't been talking too much for anyone's liking, I am sorry if so, I love coming here and posting, I feel it helps me and I like to talk to people here and try and give what support I can. I was under the impression that people liked my contributions. I disagree that I haven't lost much weight, I lost 12lbs so far and I am happy about it and I plan of course to lose more. I don't find this easy, in fact I find it very and extremely hard but I think despite that I am making changes and progress. Thank you for your views though, I guess I am grateful for people wishing to give me advice and things.
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Originally Posted by LegsAreWeak
*pops in* You know, a great way to exercise and have fun without having to do the silly dancing (I am a terrible dancer) is hula hoop. If you buy a weighted one, they're really good and once you get the handle on it, you can watch t.v while doing it
Hi LAW, that sounds really fun! I LOVE dancing and it is one of my 3 forms of exercise, alongside swimming and walking. I think it is important to do exercise you enjoy, because it can bring more benefit and more likely to stick to, I think this is different for everyone, yes!
Hello Salba, welcome, you are right, there are lovely people here, nearly all!
Awww, Mimi, MW, I said it before and I'll say it again- as a professional sewing machinist, I would alter all your clothes for your losses if you all lived near me I wish! Well done!
xxxx