First of all please don't think I am crazy.
Ok so I mentioned on here a couple of months ago that my husband was cast in a play and I had auditioned hoping for the part opposite him. I didn't get it but a tall, thin, exotic, busty girl did. My husband has to kiss her in the play. I was really upset initially but I know he loves me and would never cheat and it is only acting. The only problem is I can't get over it. I tried to ignore it and have done an ok job over the past few months forgetting about it.
Well the show starts in three weeks and being an active member of the theatre group I am helping backstage with costumes, programs, set changes etc. I recently have had to start going to rehearsals to help out and those feeling have come up again. But worse. Seeing it happen has been torturous for me! I am going to have to watch it 15 times! I feel so crazy and stupid and immature but seeing her kiss him (even though it is a little kiss) makes me angrier than anything. It shouldn't feel this way, I have nothing to worry about but it makes me lose my mind. What's worse is I have to pretend it doesn't bother me so everyone doesn't think I am mental. I also can't mention it to my husband because I don't want him to think I am a crazy jealous possessive freak.
Well as it turns out this crazy feeling has helped me a bit with my fitness and weight loss. When I think about skipping the gym, eating something unhealthy, or if I am losing steam while working out, I think of her face. I am filled with rage and it makes me push harder. I have lost three pounds in the last week. Everytime I want to eat sweets, or drink an iced coffee, or eat a grilled cheese - I picture her stupid bimbo body kissing my husband and I suddenly am not tired, don't feel like skipping the gym and don't need that cake.
I know this is a bit strange and probably not good for my mental health but it seems to be working. If this keeps up I maybe can lose another 9 pounds.