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Originally Posted by jillianfan
Anybody else experience this? My boyfriend sabotages me. He makes fun of me when I weigh and measure my food, in fact, he gets mad at me because I am dirtying up a measuring cup. So, he deliberately eats part of the food that I weighed or measured so that I don't know how much is in there. He also "force-feeds" me by giving me food off of his plate, then acting hurt when I don't want it.
What an insufferable brat. If he loses you, it won't be because you've lost weight - it will be because you want to live with an adult, not a bratty child. Taking food off your plate that you measured -- seriously??? that sounds like something I would have done to annoy my big brother ... when I was in second grade.
I can't imagine why you would put up with this kind of idiocy for another second. Sit him down and set some limits, the way you would with a 5-year-old - since he is acting like one.
If you can't get him to think about why he is acting out his own insecurities in such a singularly disrespectful and immature way, then I suggest taking a long hard look at the relationship and its long-term prospects. Do you want to spend your life with someone who expresses his emotions with all the sophistication of an elementary school kid?