I talked with my husband the other days about wanting to share a healthy lifestyle with him. I have had times in my life where I've been over weight and times where I've been relatively healthy. Once I get moving, I like exercising, but I'm an emotional eater, and my biggest struggle is not eating because I'm sad/bored ect...
Anyway hubby has never been into fitness. Never. Eats what he wants and doesn't move if he doesnt have too. Now until about 3 years ago he was prety thin, but alas as he got closer to 30 and stopped growing taller, it caught up with him. He has gained over 100 lbs, and is very very out of shape.
When I talked to him about these things I want to do, like hiking, for example, he said he can hike. Huh??
I told him that WE are in no shape to hike right now, but if we work at it, maybe by the time the weather warms up, we can go for a day hike. And he told me he can do it right now. And I quote him "what do you do on a hike? All you do is walk. I can walk all day."
I told him: no, it is not safe to just do that one day after being inactive for so long and obese. He should start slower so he doesn't hurt himself or god forbid have a heart attack. But he insists he can do whatever. He said he used to like riding bikes (like 10 years ago) and he could do it now if he wants and ride bike trails or whatever else I suggest.
I don't know what to say. How can he believe he is in any shape to just jump right in to such things. Oh here's the kicker...he's no dumby. He's a physician assistant, which is a masters level practicioner. Seems denial can over ride an education....