I didn't think I had any real "confessions" but after reading a few, I kinda realized that there are things that I do that I try not to let others know.
I obsess. I mean, there's no way in the world I can lose an ounce if I do anything less. So i'm always trying not to let that show. I have to constantly tell myself not to suddenly bring up weight loss and eating when talking to people. When someone else brings it up, I have to consciously tone down the amount that I want to say about it.
I have to stop myself from entering into a lecture about healthy food and eating right when I hear someone complaining about their weight and then proceed to say (almost like they're boasting?) "this is my first meal of the day" and it's 4:30pm. Amongst other bad eating habits.
I feel almost like I have to hide when someone in the office tells me they brought food (bagels, pizza, danishes, etc). I'll act interested but then I'll avoid it like the plague. I'm known as the one that always brings her own healthy food and lives on veggies and fruit and am always "so good". So if I actually have a bite of something you can see the joy in that person's eyes that I'll actually break my good food habit for them. Once, someone even hugged me for having a piece of their birthday cake.
I compare myself to others. all the time. Not necessarily trying to say who's better, just analyzing how other people put themselves together. I think it's because I used to think that thin people were perfect and now i realize there's lots of different bodies out there and the thin ones aren't always the most attractive.
I feel sorry for people/friends who are overweight or obese. Please don't take this the wrong way, but it hits the heart to see what difficulties they face. And you know why? Not only because I went through my fair share of terrible times when I was bigger my whole life, but because of reading so many peoples stories here at 3FC! So it's not in a mocking way by any means, but a way where I want to reach out with a magical wand and make things better for them. Ridiculous I know, but that's how it is.