yes....me and my bf are the same height, but he weights like 140 and Im at 206. its very embarrassing....

Oh wow that made me crack up!!!

And yes.... I am currently bigger than my guy (he's probably in the 145ish range, and I'm.... yeah.), but that's always been pretty typical throughout my romantic life, for the most part.... there's always some exceptions. I've just never been a fan of fat touching fat.... or fat getting in the way of fat if ya know what I mean...

umm...there are guys out there who like big girls. I was only 200 when we got together, a size 16...he managed to fatten me up and pushed very heavily the message "I love you just the way you are."

When I decided to diet (not this time, but 2 years ago, I got down to 225 and then was sabotaged by a really bad life situation and gained it all back) he gave me the message, "I like you the way you are." when pressed, it became, "I like you big."

When I thought back, the girls I remembered him dating had all been bigger than me. We had to have a really serious talk, whether he wanted to be with a BBW who was morbidly obese or whether he wanted to be with someone who might live for a while. And, why he might want to be with someone who was morbidly obese (the logic of which is scary in its own right) and what the consequences of that obesity would mean as well as the limitations right now (I had gotten to the point where I was getting winded cleaning the house or working in the yard and was too tired to play with the kids, etc). Further, I told him that I didn't want to be trapped in his fat playground, that I wasn't fat when we got together and it wasn't something I'd signed on for. I'd rather love him than food, etc....

It was a good conversation (well, series of...) but I had to be the one to start them.

Weeb

I'm really short and I tend to date tall guys. But at one time I saw pictures (my sister guesstimates they were around 210-220), I SWEAR I looked like a box because I'm so short and he looked tiny compared to me.... never again

My bf of 3 years is 5'10 and his start weight was 190.. currently he's 214 lol
so we're both losing weight together

I am not attracted to skinny boys.

Well right now I'm single but I have always gone for the taller guys (like 6'3 and up) so I don't know that I weighed more, but it definitely looked like it. All the guys I dated have always been in way better shape than me. The last guy I was dating probably weighed the same as me but he was taller, so my 5'1 frame looked huge compared to him! I always felt like people were staring and thinking "What does he see in her?"

Yeah, I do. But I'm married to a soldier, so it's not exactly surprising. It's hard to say how much he weighs right now, though, cause he's been deployed for almost a year and they tend to drop massive amounts of weight while they're gone. Which seems incredibly unfair when he didn't need to lose any in the first place. XD

Not quite but if I continue gaining then I will be in a few months. Right now I am at 229 and DH is around 240. He is also 6'3 though and has a few inches on me. He needs to lose weight too so I hope me losing weight will motivate him and we could be healthy together.

I really hate this subject. I am almost 4 inches taller than my bf and its embarassing to know that I weight more than him. I had this problem with previous boyfriends as well. Maybe if I was shorter I wouldnt have this problem. :/

My husband often complains about his weight- at least as much as I do. But he's 5'4", 122 lbs, and has the best metabolism I've ever seen! If he gets to 125, he freaks out, skips breakfast and a snack, and is back down to 122. It's disgusting. I don't remember ever being 122. I must have been in elementary school or something. At my height, I think that to weigh less than him might be a bit extreme, but I certainly want to close the gap!

Yes, he weighs less than me and all of them have. I usually go for tall skinny guys (my dad is tiny), but not this time. My bf (we are engaged to be engaged lol...waiting on a visa) is only 5'2" but muscular. When we hooked up, we were about 90lbs different, hopefully when he sees me again in Sept I will be much much smaller than him. He doesn't even know I'm losing...I LOVE the surprise effect.

Nope. Not now. Boyfriend is 6'2 and 21O. So, I'm lighter weee!!! He does complain about his body though quite often, which makes me afraid that he'll be weirded out when he finds out that I once outweighed his "terrible weight" by 16lbs at 4 inches shorter. Yikesers. I wonder how guys see that. Do they just not care or are they freaked out/worry that gf will gain everything back. Not sure how to broach the subject.

My boyfriend is like an inch shorter than me and he's really skinny. I'm not sure of his weight cuz he won't tell me, but I'd guess I'm about 30 pounds heavier. So I feel like a giant next to him. The other day he said something along the lines of, "how am I gonna carry you over the threshold?" which was kind of mean, but sweet too. So weighing less than him is a big motivator for me. If I'm already taller, at least I can be lighter.

I haven't dated a guy in over three years. But i was significantly heavier than all of them, seeing as I have a fondness for tall, thin guys.

I am, however, about 3 inches taller and 60 lbs. heavier than my current (female) partner. When we started dieting, she texted me and said "omg, i weigh 184...its crisis mode!!" and my first thought was "184?! Seriously, thats your crisis point?". Luckily, I checked myself before saying it....

My fiance is way taller than me (6'3), but I'm not sure how much he weighs, my guess is 270lbs. He doesn't really look it since it's a lot of muscle. Kinda nice actually! Btw, right now I'm back up to 150lbs.. When we go rock climbing I can still belay him without any difficulty, that is nice!

My boyfriend weighs more too. He is 6'0 170lbs and I am 5'0 and 240lbs.

I always think it is funny cuz I wonder if people see us in public and think like wow, she is WAY heavier then him.

I use to be smaller, in high school I was 140lbs, sickening that I have gained that much, anywho. I was up to 260lbs and he was up to 190lbs at one time, but we both have lost some weight, Of course his looks better, because he is taller so 20 lbs for him makes him look a lot tinier. He always says he don't care about my size though.