Actually, we just had a HUGE fight last week after I was confronted over being fat, lazy and not taking care of myself.
At 1st I was extremely angry and hurt. After talking with my BF I got a little reality check
Everything he said was TRUE!Sometime men don't think before they blurt things out. Which has prompted me to actually take some action
I would ask how he said this to you...was it malicious name calling meant to hurt you? If so then I would say yah he's a big jerk!
Men and Women have such a different way of communicating. He may not have meant to hurt your feelings in the way he did.