Hello all, I am back and none too soon. The siblings got along well thank heavens. FIL's wife (recent wife, not my beloved MIL who passed away in 1979) put on a good show - I think we will soon see the sincerity/insincerity of the situation as eventually everyone shows their true colors.
Food was bad as we had mostly sandwich trays and fast foods all week long. I kept pacing back and forth as I could not sit in the house for 14 hours at a time - also bothered my foot to sit for long periods. So I would periodically get up and take short walks. But it was good to see SOME of the family again. DH has the sweetest most delightful aunts, was good to spend some time with them, especially since they are in their 80's and getting along in years. We did go down to the ocean twice, once during the day and once at night. It was pretty, especially at night with an almost full moon shimmering on the water in the distance. And I love the sound of the surf.
I am feeling a bit out of sorts at the moment. Too much switching gears quickly. Now I have to buckle down tomorrow, get back to regular life and dig my heels in - lots of homework to do for my course. Guess it's best to get busy and keep my mind from being angry over some potential injustices I have seen this past week.
On a positive note, we did get hold of some family pictures from when the children were small. DH is scanning them in so the whole family can have a copy for themselves. Among the pile were some pictures when DH and I were dating. I actually have proof that at one point in my life I was skinny.

Also when we got married we had a tiny wedding and didn't have formal pictures. Found some my MIL kept from long ago that I didn't have, including a copy of one that was my favorite. It had faded over time and stuck to the glass in the picture frame. Now I have a fresh replacement. Thanks Mom!!!!
May take me a few days to get over my mood here, so forgive me if I lurk a bit but will try to keep up with posting as it is getting rather quiet around here.