Thank you everyone for the support and suggestions.
This morning the alarm went off at 6:00 am, hit snooze (bad habit), got up before it went off again. I got dressed, in the clothes I layed out, grabbed my videos and weights and exercised. I woke up the boys, we had breakfast and waited around until the bus came. It was nice to have lunches already made and backpacks ready. Their was no one looking for anything, I wasn't rushing to get everything done before they had to leave, whch meant no STRESS

. Life was so much easier this morning, I will definately continue.