I was told about 3FC from a friend who had her own little group going called "Thru Thick and Thin". She absolutely loved it here. She knew I was struggling and felt hopeless .... and wanted to encourage me to come join. I stayed away for almost a year before coming here. Finally, I came and lurked for about a month. I never posted ... only read. I was mainly hunting for her. I did not know her user's name. I eventually posted here and there. No single group. In the process... I found HOPE here.
I found threads with the theme about needing to lose 100lbs or more. That was a good feeling. Although people needing to lose 50-100 lbs has great ideas to share... (and I hope to be one of them someday) ... I did not feel connected to them as a newcomer.
I needed to lose 200lbs and I probably felt inadequate compared to them. I don't know.??
I did know ... I wished they had a thread for those of us needing to lose a LOT more than 100lbs.
Then one day ...I decided I wanted to start a group for women who were like me ... weighing 300+lbs. I started a new thread with this theme. I don't remember exactly what I called it... but I included the words "300+" because I wanted it for those of us who had MORE than a hundred pounds to lose.
ON THE SAME DAY another person started a similar thread.
I "think" it was called "Who's ready to try again with me" or something like that.
She too was 300+ lbs.
I am usually a person who likes to be "in control" ... but I decided to "change my norm" and go join her group instead of going forward with mine. I was there from day one. We decided as a group to call ourselves "300+ and Ready to Try Again"
Guess that is more than you asked for Thin... but you know me. ... sometimes I just start talking and don't know when to shut up.