Dina, first let me

you to 30somethings. We start a new thread every day because we had a weekly one and it was around 100 posts long by the end of the week. This is easier to keep track of (at least in my mind). I "chat" by way of posting on the daily thread. I also don't do it every single day, sometimes though I post more than once ~ if I have something that I think will be helpful.
My suggestion would be to go and read the last couple of days and then join us. Feel free to jump right on in, we will not bite I promise.
Lisa