Hi everyone!
Wow, lots of posts!!!
VermontMom-as a moderator, I kind of peek around the boards, making sure noone is advertising their business for profit-like Herbalife or something, and help welcome people, answer questions about diet and fitness, and try to "diffuse" tense situations. I can also delete posts that may be offensive, or move threads to a higher position if I think they are important and would benefit everyone to read them-stuff like that basically.
Christine-don't feel bad about gaining weight. There is that commercial out now that says "Why does carrying a 5 lb. baby mean that I am now 30 pounds heavier?" Simple answer. When I was pregnant I read about everything there was on the subject and learned that there is a lot more happening to your body besides the baby. Your other organs are moved either up or to the side-your heart does both, at an angle, and your body increases its blood volume by about an extra pint! That is 1 pound right there! Depending on your situation, your breasts will gain anywhere from 1/2 to 2 pounds-and you uterus will become 2 pounds heavier due to its increasing size. Add 1 pound of amniotic fluid, and 1 pound of placenta-and there is 7 extra pounds right there in addition to the baby of absolutely necessary weight gain-so having an average size child (7-8 pounds) there is a minimum of 15 pounds of gain even if you are in a famine! Your body also has the natural instinct to gain a few extra pounds, from the days when there was no formula and all women had to breastfeed. When food wasn't as plentiful, our bodies were made to pack on a few extra fat stores that our bodies could turn into milk for our infant-so they would be sure to be fed even if we were not. There were no Twinkies or McDonalds when the human race began, so it was a perfect system. We ate for nutrition, and not just for the heck of it, so we gained the right amount of weight and it came off when we nursed our children.
If you nurse, you will burn off a few pounds quicker, as well as help your uterus contract and return to normal size more quickly. It you choose not to, then you will have to make up for that after you recuperate from childbirth!
That is why doctors say a healthy gain is between 20-40 pounds when the baby is only 7 or 8. (or in my case, 9 or 10!

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I will recommend a good video for you to get, though-it is Denise Austin's Bounce back after baby. It is a mild aerobics one, with a light toning section at the end just for your lower abs and rear end-where we tend to get it most after a child! It is not a real intense one, but enough to get you back into fitness after having a baby. Go to
www.half.com to get the best deal on it!
Kina-with all the exercise you are doing, do you mind if I ask what calorie level you are at each day? If you are eating 1200-1500, you may actually do better at 1700-1800 if you are doing all those miles walking and on the eliptical. You will be more satisfied, and less likely to binge eat, and still be losing.
t-girl-so glad you are back with us! The hardest part is coming to grips with yourself after a slide, and getting the momentum to start doing better for yourself again.
Did anyone see Dr. Phil yesterday? It was a show about obese kids-and there was something hew said that really rings true.
"You can have all the trainers and equipment in the world-but you have to want your long term goal more than the pleasure at the present. You have to fight through that good feeling of the moment (meaning a food binge or not exercising) and look ahead to your goal."
It is the hardest thing I have to face, because sometimes I just want that food-and when you binge, you feel great at that moment. The damage doesn't really hit you until you are trying on something in your closet that doesn't fit anymore, or you get made fun of by someone, or some other hurtful situation. This may be a week or a month later that you get feel the effect of that binge.
Just something to think about. This is why I stated a couple weks ago about my "getting through that moment" strategy. I think of all the hurtful things I have ever experienced where my weight was a factor-feeling uncomfortable in a bridesmaid dress, getting picked last in gym, a name you were called-whatever your situation may be. It really puts in perspective why we are doing all of this!
(So here I was crying my eyes out at this show, wanting to hold and hug those children and help them and show them the way-remembering my hurtful moments and wanting to shield them from that-aye yay yaye!)
I thought at least I could reinforce my message, and help my friends here...
Have a wonderful day everyone! WE CAN DO THIS!!!
Aphil
(lightin' the fire under everyone's booties!)