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Originally Posted by deelee10
Hi Golden Girls-
I’ve been MIA. Have a lot on my mind. I was very busy getting ready for the election (DH and I were first time election judges and had to know what we were doing.) then hosted Bunko, (It’s getting the house in order after a period of being so busy) and packing for my trip to D.C. and Savannah. And on the bright sunny morning on the plane heading down there I noticed a small bump on the side of DH’s face, right below where his Mantle Cell Lymphoma appeared in Feb. 2004. Then, on the nine hour drive to Savannah, more blazing sunshine and yep, still a very small puff. I’ve notice little bumps before and I’ll ask about it and he’ll say it’s an ingrown hair or zit that’s been bothering him and the skin is kind of red, like a zit. This time he felt it and said it’s nothing. He pinched and squeezed his face. With the first large lump, the size of half a golf ball, he says he could feel something. He never told me that. And when I feel both sides of his face I feel a little something on one side, like a tiny lymph node or something and on the other side it is definitely bigger and causing the small protrusion that I noticed. He is scheduled for his check up in March. When he was first diagnosed there was an average 3 year life expectancy. That has been improving and here he is at almost 9 years. I’m trying to keep an eye on it. If it gets significantly bigger I’ll have to pitch a fit and get him to go for a checkup sooner. We had a pretty good time on the trip. It was great seeing DS and Savannah was very charming. Got hom on the Monday before Thanksgiving and had to get to work It was very nice and a good distraction. Now I'm trying to get into the Christmas spirit. Last year I was sick before Christman and discovered shopping on line. We are leaving for Costa Rica on December 28 to get on a cruise that takes us through the Panama Canal with another couple. DH is trying to lose a few pounds and has been prodding me too. I finally told him to stop talking about how we needed to “get in shape for the cruise” cuz I wanted to enjoy Thanksgiving. I've really been bad about the late night carbs and I realize it is this worry that is contributing to it. I gained a lot of weight in 2004 during his treatment – anti depressants and chocolate got me through. And our friends have a family crisis and don’t know if they will be able to go on the cruise. Of course, they got the cruise insurance. I told DH we should get the insurance because it is an expensive trip – a splurge for us. Well, you guessed, it he didn’t. Sorry this is so long. I have a hard time just “being normal” at the moment. Hugs to you all.
Hi Dee,
Do you know about LLS (Leukemia & Lymphoma Society)?
http://www.lls.org/
There is a LOT of information and studies and support totally focused on blood cancers. This is the group that my DD and I did the marathons for.
If there is anything I can do to help, please send me a message via PM. I was diagnosed with melanomas in 2006 and with lymphoma in 2009. I TOTALLY understand the urge to eat carbs during health problem times. And, it seems to me that health problems with the ones we love are tougher to deal with than our own health problems.
Lynn