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Originally Posted by Lucky Chick
One thing that is consistent (and is out there right now a lot) is the group of us who are 'slow losers'.
Remember how fleeting time really is... 8 weeks goes by in a blink of an eye. Losing 24.4 lbs in 8 weeks is, for me, incredible. Don't get too stuck in the moment on IP. Focus on the goal.
You are SO right... I know I haven't posted lately as work has been crazy, but I see people getting bogged down in the minutia of the journey rather than focusing on the end goal. I think you put it well. Here is my 2 cents...
I forget who posted a few days ago about this... but the message was simple. When you have the college degree, no one is going to ask which class you didn't get an A in. When you are thin, you won't remember the weeks that were slow and the weeks that went well.
What matters is that you are doing this for the long-term. You are becoming healthier for your own sake and for those you love.
On the weeks that don't seem to go well, think about how they could have been better. If you pinpoint something, try it. If not, keep going. Don't beat yourself up because you didn't get the outcome you were expecting; instead, do a reality check to make sure that you are giving it your all.
For example, I read a post where someone had figured out that they were eating rotisserie chicken with lots of added sugar, etc. They didn't know it at the time and thought they were doing everything right... That turned out not to be the case. Reread the protocol sheet. Go back and try bootcamp (some people swear by it, others lose more when they eat restricted). Try a different vegetable... But don't give up!
The experiences of everyone on this board show that this diet really does work. How many times have you tried to lose weight, only to plateau after a few weeks, have your metabolism slow down and be starving, or something else? While there are some cases of that on this diet, it generally seems to me that people who follow the program lose weight. They lose lots of weight... maybe not tons each week, and maybe not as quickly as some other people, but it does work.
I've gotten a ton of compliments in the past week. I went to NY and saw people in our office there who haven't seen me in 6 weeks. I got comments from "you're shrinking" to "you look amazing!" and it really made me realize that the minutia and the details really don't matter. Look what I've accomplished in 6 short weeks. Those weeks didn't seem short to me as I lived through them, but looking back I really have accomplished a lot in a very short period of time. Sometimes we have to rearrange our perspective to remember what is truly important. I came home Wednesday evening and my husband noticed how happy I seemed. I simply said "the world is starting to notice, and it makes me smile."
Have a great weekend everyone.