EZ....will pray for that ear issue. no fun.
Yes, I know it is important to go with MIL to these apts. They have thanked me alot for the detailed emails I have written. Even so, this is not as important as being a missionary. Hard to explain how they value some things over others, like I said, it is just me being sensitive and I'm tired of having to pretend it doesn't bother me and listen to their bragging....
Of course we can brag as well, but it is not seen as valuable as being in the ministry. that is just the "family way" and those who aren't doing it want to be doing it...except us

we just want to do what the Lord has called us to do.
It actually gets deeper than all this. The Sunday morning event is a worship service being lead by DH's pastor sister. She has asked him to do a children's lesson right before her sermon. Her passage is Rev 3:7-9 because it is the passage that was used by a great-great-great grandfather who lead the "Great Trek" Russian Mennonites...if you know Mennonite history, this is in every book. They are all really proud of this, but I read about it and personally, I am not. They guy made some poor judgements and many people lost their lives.
The passage is on "open doors" and DH may not see eye to eye on how that should be interpreted with his sister

oh boy, do we need more conflict here? DH will say what the Lord has told him to, but I can guarantee it won't sit well with some in attendance.
this is a reunion with my DH's Mother's extended family. I don't know these people and DH isn't that interested.
The immediate family of my husband will be there or some of them that is our children's uncles and aunts and cousins. They are OK visiting with them, not overly excited, but then again they are mostly boys and not that social. Our oldest daughter isn't interested because the older cousin girls will not be there....our youngest daughter would be happy to visit with your one young cousin who is supposed to be there.
The biggest dividing factor is we have nearly all the boys and everyone else has girls. DH's brother has 4 girls, his sister 3 girls, his other sister 1 girl, 1 boy and his 3rd sister has 1 girl 1 boy. I won't get into it much, but the girl/boy issue has been a challenge to understate it.....and have to be watchful of their interactions with their cousins so things are not misunderstood....
At this time, we plan to attend one event, although my MIL hinted she wanted all her kids there, DH has to work on Saturday which is a good excuse for the stuff during the day, but not the evening.
