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Callmemom said:On a a sad note, my son who I had said has gone off the deep end stopped by today - I hardley recognized him, like a ghost of his former self. It broke my heart. I cant stand it!!! I just want to ground him and make him be the young man he once was. I honestly dont even want to see him. The young man at my door today was not my son......
Callmemom My son lived on the street for two years.

It was the most heartbreaking experience of my life.

After one of many horrific "dramas" with him, I commented to my dad that I was DONE! His response was, "You do not in any way have to "own" his behavior, respect him for it, or even like him for it, but you DO have to love him and let him know that. It was a huge turning point for me and how I reacted to him, on the seldom times I saw him. As an aside to all this I managed to put on a good 30 lbs...mmmm comfort food, I guess. The miracle here was that he ended up with a baby...which helped him to see the "light"...got himself in rehab...and today, lives with us along with our precious 4 year old healthy grandson! (Not that I would recommend this solution

) And...he's putting himself through college and law school! I'm apparently still healing as the tears are pouring down my face. Now, another aside...is that I gained another 30 lb mmmmmmmmm more comfort food, because, of course I had to cook all their favorite foods...and eat them!

Wow...sorry for rattling on...I just wanted to share this to show you how food can tend to be our comfort...when actually as you read all these wonderful threads, that friends, and especially our new friends here

...and a great diet plan plan can keep you on track! Keep focusing on you!!! You deserve it!
