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Originally Posted by Jennijen
Hi All! I'm hoping for some advice! About three years ago I started IP and had lost about 40 pounds in less than 3 months. I was feeling great, butttt I met my boyfriend about 2 months in and by month 3 I was so tired of going on dates and not being able to drink wine/enjoy food. We had a special Christmas date and I decided to cheat, just that one day!, before going into maintenance mode. And ever since that day I could never go back 100 percent. I ended up eating on protocol during the week and on the weekends enjoy, pretty successfully, and got down to my goal weight. I went from a size 14 to size 2, sometimes 0 and 125 pounds! For a few months I was pretty steadily at 125 and felt terrific. But slowly the cheat days turned into weekends turned into weeks and I gained weight. I started working out A LOT so I was maintaining the 30 pounds I had put on. But then I got a promotion and started not making my workouts and stress eating. Flash forward to today and I have put back on all put 2 pounds of the weight I lost on IP.
I'm definitely more muscular now, but I'm still incredibly unhappy in my own skin. It makes me so sad to look at pictures of me before and now! When I lost the weight initially, I did the program with my mom, who also successfully lost weight and then met her boyfriend and put it back on. She has committed to starting back with me on Jan 1st.
Here lies my problem! I'm ready to start TODAY. I don't want to feel uncomfortable around the holidays and in my New Years Eve dress, etc. BUT I also want to set myself up for success. My boyfriend's family always brings out the REALLY nice wine (Leonettis!) for Christmas and Thanksgiving. We have a family brunch at a local fancy restaurant that I look forward to every year.... the typical holiday stuff. I definitely feel I can eat healthy but I have been looking forward to this wine all year long! And, like I mentioned, I want to set myself up to be successful. Has anyone else had this experience before? Is it better to just eat healthy and start up again on IP January 1st? Or try incorporating it in knowing I'll be cheating on the Holiday get togethers? Or stop making excuses and do my best to get through the holidays (toughest time of the year for me on the toughest weeks of the program ha).
My favorite option is do to IP on my own and know that the holidays I will eat in moderation and have some vino and start back up with my clinic on Jan 1st with my mom by my side. BUT I'm not sure how that would affect my metabolism/overall restart. And if I do this, can I still workout? Would that entail an extra packet?
Sorry for such a long post--- any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!
Jenni- START TODAY! You won't be sorry! Come join us in the 2015 Rebooters thread or the 2015 Heading into the holidays thread. There are a bunch of us on P1 during this time of year.
I faced the same issue as you, I was ready to start in Oct. I contemplated waiting until Jan. simply because of the time of year. But then I thought, why wait and possibly weight EVEN MORE than I do now? I figured, any weight that I could lose between then (Oct) and Jan. would be gravy. Even if it was only a couple of pounds. Here I am, on my 6th week of my reboot and I am already down 12#.
AND, I even had a cheat meal in there. I am so, so, so glad I just got started. I do not think it is a decision you will regret.
There are 6 full weeks left in this year. Let's say, that since you are starting right now, you will stay fully compliant for Thanksgiving, but schedule a cheat for Christmas. You will have 4 full weeks OP. You've done this before, so you full well know that you can EASILY lose 10# by Christmas. Then you have your Christmas day cheat and for arguments sake, let's say you hold steady between Christmas and New Years. Wouldn't you rather go into Jan. 10# less than what you are now? That is that much less you have to lose next year. That much less that you have to worry about.
My suggestion to you is to start RIGHT NOW and lose as much as you can during this trying time of year. That is what I am doing. And you know once you get started and seeing results and picking up momentum, you will be motivated to keep going.
I found, for myself, that once I was ready to go back on P1 and I had made up my mind to do it, I was extremely impatient and I knew I would start right away. I simply didn't want to wait.