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Looks there is more than me on here having trouble staying on program. I've been trying to figure out lately just why I can't stay focused. One thought that I am toying with is that I know in the back of my head, that I can lose this weight rather quickly like I did the first time around when I decide to stay on plan. That's a terrible excuse. I've got to decide that I WANT it bad enough that I just do it. No more waiting for tomorrow. Does that make sense?
What I think started me back on the road to gaining weight is that I got comfortable where I was at, even though I never got to my goal which was then 145.
It really hit me today when I decided to try on a pair of dress pants I haven't worn for several months. I have a funeral to go to Saturday and they don't fit. I refuse to buy a bigger pair. I remember how good it felt to wear those 10's and by gosh I'm gonna get back into them. As I was trying to squeeze my fanny into them, I remembered how good it felt when I bought them and was able to wear them. Enough excuses for me! Plus I gave all my bigger clothes away as I lost weight and remembered how good that felt to throw the big sizes in a pile and get rid of them.
Today when I went to my clinic, they had an IP tea that I bought. I failed to ask how much it was. When I got home I looked at my receipt. Almost had heart failure. $14.00 for 20 tea bags. I better enjoy it! Oh, and by the way....I won't be naked at the funeral.....I still have a dress that fits. Thank goodness!
Hi. Glad I found this thread. You are not the only one. I thought I was the only one. I got totally derailed on vacation with dh and both twenty something dear sons. Gained about 7 lbs cuz I kept eating bad things once I got home.I have lost 2 and 1/2 of that. Maintenance is a very tricky thing. I think I have to go back op 100% to kind of detox I think. I've been trying to do that for 3 days or more. The only way I was able to do that was to totally clear the house and give up socializing where food is involved which is basically everything. Not as hard as for some of you since I'm an empty nester but ds does spend the night once or twice a week because we are closer to his work and I keep a couple of things for him. My problem is I am eating things that I was never tempted by before - I won't go into detail because of IP posting policy. DH has been very supportive but I have started eating the stuff he puts on his morning toast with a spoon! I can't ask him to give up that....can I? NO!! I have to "put on my big girl pants" for that one. And I know I need to have someone kick me in the butt - BUT I'm not in the mood for that. Hmm, just weighed myself, down a half lb but I DON'T DESERVE IT. It will come back on a day when I think I do deserve it. I am in a bit better mood though...Let me just offer this to my sisters who are struggling with staying on plan. I know this is a "no cheating" diet, and I know I will probably get yelled at but being almost on plan is BETTER THAN THROWING IN THE TOWEL and being completely off plan. I will deny writing that because we all know how nicely the weight comes off when we are on plan. I don't like the way I look in the smaller size jeans the young sales clerks talked me into buying. I offer this - struggling sisters, you can do this, we can do this. I told myself I would never let myself get above a certain weight and I haven't but I got close enough that I really scared myself. Lets do what it takes.Originally Posted by iowahawkeyemom
Patns....I can see your cats as I read your post.....too funny!Looks there is more than me on here having trouble staying on program. I've been trying to figure out lately just why I can't stay focused. One thought that I am toying with is that I know in the back of my head, that I can lose this weight rather quickly like I did the first time around when I decide to stay on plan. That's a terrible excuse. I've got to decide that I WANT it bad enough that I just do it. No more waiting for tomorrow. Does that make sense?
What I think started me back on the road to gaining weight is that I got comfortable where I was at, even though I never got to my goal which was then 145.
It really hit me today when I decided to try on a pair of dress pants I haven't worn for several months. I have a funeral to go to Saturday and they don't fit. I refuse to buy a bigger pair. I remember how good it felt to wear those 10's and by gosh I'm gonna get back into them. As I was trying to squeeze my fanny into them, I remembered how good it felt when I bought them and was able to wear them. Enough excuses for me! Plus I gave all my bigger clothes away as I lost weight and remembered how good that felt to throw the big sizes in a pile and get rid of them.
Today when I went to my clinic, they had an IP tea that I bought. I failed to ask how much it was. When I got home I looked at my receipt. Almost had heart failure. $14.00 for 20 tea bags. I better enjoy it! Oh, and by the way....I won't be naked at the funeral.....I still have a dress that fits. Thank goodness!


And I hope the coming weigh-in is good.
