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Originally Posted by Samadhi
OH my, did that bring up emotion in me. What if being at my goal means I am a person I don't like - TOO confident, TOO "out there"?????
One of those people I try to avoid becaue the "think they are all that"!!!!
the thing about this is do you really feel you are worth less due to your current weight? And do you judge other overweight people as being worth less?
If yes, then that's a bigger problem than just adjusting to your new size, although I don't mean to sound dismissive - it's a reality for many people including me that we judge ourselves by our appearance, including (maybe especially) our weight. But at least for me, I don't judge other people negatively and assume they are arrogant if they are thin - not unless they specifically do and say things to show that they are. (I can think of a specific example of someone I know who would always hone in on whatever negative she could find about someone, and with someone heavy, it would be about their weight, but if it wasn't that, she'd find something else!).
I'd like to think that I will be the same person, only thinner (and fitter and healthier!) and I think that my experience of being overweight for 40 years will have changed who I am permanently so that I would not ever become one of those arrogant people!