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Originally Posted by Phoenix32203
Confession: I was supposed to check in yesterday, but I didn't.
I haven't lost a single pound since last week, and I wanted to hit my goal of 238. I will check in today, no matter what. Even though I did not lose, I have been on my diet, keeping my food journal religiously, and exercising each day. I should have been happy with that. Instead, I am back to that same old scale-fixation. I do not want to sabotage myself, yet again. What are some ways you guys have found to beat that battle? I can't see being stuck at a number for a month or so, as some have experienced, without just cracking from the disappointment. This is a stumbling block I'd like to learn to deal with before I hit one of those huge plateaus 50 pounds from now. Any suggestions?
I'm not a great motivational speaker, so I hope you don't mind if I just share my mentality with you.
For me, the thought is, "What's the alternative?" For weight-loss to be successful, most people can't just hop on a diet and then casually set it aside once they reach their goals, expecting to remain slim and happy for the rest of their lives - after all, the hard work is done, right? But a diet isn't meant to be work, a project we devote ourselves to until it's "complete" and then turn our attention elsewhere... it's meant to be our everyday life. It's a life-long process, and if we don't exert as much effort to change our mentality as we do our food and exercise, we're only setting ourselves up for disappointment in the end.
Being healthy is a lifestyle, and it's yours now. Do you want to go back to satisfying your immediate cravings and being unhappy with yourself? I know I wouldn't!
Every single day I stick with this new way of living I am so pleased, like a huge burden has been lifted! I no longer have to stare in the mirror in disgust. I'm not beautiful and slim yet, but what makes that okay is that I
will be. I have
chosen to be. It may take years of sweat and toil, but I will be making myself many times healthier inside and out in the process, and as well as both physically and emotionally stronger. Knowing this almost makes me not care what the scale says.
After all, what other option is there?
Getting OFF my soapbox, I recently posted a list of plateau-breaking ideas on another member's thread, and I hope you don't mind me pasting them here. It's not certain yet whether you've really hit a plateau, but if you're anything like me you might get antsy and need to DO something about that scale, even if maintaining for a week is perfectly normal.

These definitely aren't the only ones out there, but they've caught my interest:
* If your calorie intake is just barely enough to lose weight, you could lower it - a LITTLE; too low too fast can be a bad thing!
* If you've already cut your calories to a fairly low amount, you could consider trying the "zig-zag" dieting method. Some sources recommend you eat 3 days at your low calorie level, then one to three days at your "maintenance" calorie amount or a little higher, then back down to the weight-loss calorie level for 3 more days. Like if I were to try it, I'd eat 1500 calories Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, then 1800-2000 calories Thursday, then 1500 again for Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, etc. It's supposed to keep your body from getting too used to its calorie deficit and lowering your metabolism to compensate. Our bodies can sometimes be more adaptive than we realize!
* Add in weight training to your exercise plan, if you aren't already doing this. If you're not losing, maybe you can take advantage of the surplus calories to build a little bonus muscle, which should by default increase your basal metabolic rate just slightly. Who knows, maybe it would be enough to nudge you off your plateau.
* The last suggestion (and what I would probably try first if I hit a plateau) is changing your exercise type. If you usually walk, try stairs or jump rope or get on one of those crazy gym machines to get your cardio for awhile. Some folks say it's a good idea to keep your body guessing, or it can adapt itself to most any routine and make itself a more efficient, calorie-conserving survival machine.
Don't give up! I know you'll get past this.
