WELCOME JAN!!
Jen I really hope you are feeling better. I think you did the right thing going to see teh nurse. My sister's sister in law had pneumonia. SHe's been sick for three months. She's 25 and has had to have fluid drained from her lungs, which put her in ICU for three days, she could hardly move for weeks. She's slowly on the mend now, but it's nothing to mess with. And now that you have ahd it you don't want to fool around with any illness that could lead to having it again. that's really awful about your manager. Here it is my understanding that an employer can only confirm that you worked there, and the dates and possibly the title you had. They can't say anything else as far as I know. Too many peole have held grudges against those who leave a company and give bad reviews based not on work preformance but on the anger they are holding.
Well I am off to soak in the tub. I need abit of something for myself. It seems everytime I put something away today Aj dragged it back out it is a never ending cycle. SO I am going to go realx while they nap
~Misty