but now EVERYBODY in the office has been involved and now the climate in the office is just miserable
And that is NOT your fault! You were the victim, not the perpetrator. It makes me so angry that we get treated like dirt for standing up for ourselves. You just hang in there. You did the right thing. I'm not sure your boss handled it very well, though, involving everyone else but maybe it was just that widespread.
I might of missed something but did this guy come and apolgize for his behaviour?
Things are just getting worse in our office. The mean girls (thats what I started calling them after watching the movie Mean Girls) have decided they are angry at another person in our office for something that had nothing to do with her but, she brought it to the managers attention without realizing there was a *problem* the manager I guess wigged out and torn a strip off one of the mean girls and so now its this other woman's fault. duh I keep wanting to just ask Gloria (head of the mean girls) if she has ever watched Mean Girls..and say really watched it. And did it feel familiar? Cause dang you need to grow up and get out of the mentality that this is highschool. Then turn to Kim ( her lil watch dog) Do you like acting this way? Cause seriously you don't act like this when shes not around.
Then to Deb ( our supervisor) Get a back bone girl! Why would you think its ok for her to treat others this way? And you stand there and let them and crack jokes about it later.
Today I find out if Im out of there! Ladies please cross your fingers for me.
No ma'am, he is not. I'm sorry I wasn't clear, I was venting at the time. After speaking with my boss about this it really seemed to be more of a hassle than anything. I will say they were prompt in investigating, but now EVERYBODY in the office has been involved and now the climate in the office is just miserable. So now I will just remain as neutral with everyone as possible. I mean I don't want to be viewed as anti-social, but now I have to think about people retailating, etc.
Sweetie, I was kidding! You were quite clear on your post (you mentioned it a few times)--I was just trying to make light of the situation.
