Evenin' ladies,
Hugs and strong shoulders to you Nae to get through the next few days...
I was bad tonight. But not as bad as I could have been.

In an effort to get DH out of the house, I joined him up in an after work billiards league from my office. He desperately would love to get me interested in it, but my eyes are crooked.

I cannot golf because my eyes think the hole is HERE but in reality, it's over THERE. Same with billiards. Just a hair off and the cue ball goes in the wrong direction. No, it's not a matter of practice - if I get the ball in, it's a lucky shot. I know this, I live with these eyes and accept my limitations. And it's no fun being involved with something that you can never do that well at. I have other "talents"

So I spend a few hours at the pool hall watching him play and I'm happy with that. Anyway... I haven't been sleeping well - wake up around 3 am, toss and turn until about 30 minutes before it's time to get up and fall into a deep sleep just to have the alarm startle me awake. So I figured, what the heck... I'll have me a rum and Coke WITH lime tonight (wonder where I got that idea from (LINUS

) . That ought to make me sleepy when I get home. Should have known that it would be mostly a cup of ice with a splash of Coke and less of a splash of rum. Of course being in a billiards hall, everyone was smoking like crazy. I'm still not over the cigarettes yet but the act of drinking around smokers REALLY dug up those old cravings something fierce. DH was enjoying himself and I didn't want to make him leave but it took a lot of strength not to light up. I did manage to stay clean tho because I know my personality and I'm almost sure that if I have one, I'll be back smoking again. Sunday was 10 months since I quit smoking and my short term goal is to make it one year (even as I sit here right now desperately wanting one). Lesson learned I suppose is that I can drink wine but not a mixed drink and be around smokers...
Shad, I was almost going to email you some questions about the confounded SAP monster but I have a new mentor and she's very good. I'm actually understanding some of this stuff and trying transactions on my own. Very scary. It sounds as if you are the team lead by defacto vote within your group. Hope you don't get sucked up in the drama around you tho I bet that they are enjoying the bits of organization you bring to the table. That's wonderful that you got back with the running again!
Hey there Jersey Mel, you're making me quite hungry here at 11pm with your recipes. I almost called you up for take out orders.

Apparently you found the right mix of spices to be yummy but not aggrivate the eyes or tummy. Hola and enjoy chica!
Linus and Teel on Holiday together? Can I join you????? Please? Pretty Please. Ok, well I can't really afford it right now so can you at least document your trip with photos and captions? I'm sure it will be great fun. Linus - as for girls names have you considered Joy, Melody or Donna????

I rather like the name you have picked for a boy. Guess I was reading too fast, I thought I read that you had a test and already knew the sex of the baby. Guess not if you're thinking of girls names, eh? I hope your mouth is doing better today.
Holly, it's great to hear you are in love with life and the DH. Watched a bit on the news today - 7 ways to stay young. One of which was having a good loving relationship. You go girl!
I tell you, all this time together and I never knew that Teel was the Pope's wife. Here I thought he was a confirmed bachelor - now are we talking about the Catholic Pope or do you have pope's in the church of England? Either way, I must be more respectful...
Hey, I saw on the news that HRM will not be attending said son's wedding. Saw on the Internet the other day that she was controlling all the wedding plans. Think Chuck & Cammie showed the old girl the drawbridge door? I LOVE the way the English phase things. Guess it was the Star that blazed the headlines (after the engagement announcement) 2 Old Gits are marrying - so what? OLD GITS????? I laughed and laughed and laughed. Are DH and I old gits - they certainly say GIT down here alot but they really mean GET.
On another note - I'm sure I can admit this among friends and you will not ridicule me. I am afraid of monsters. Aliens from outer space too. Always have been. Could never get me to go into the dark basement at night - not for all the tea in China, not for all the money in the world. Even as an adult, I cannot sleep in a room if the closet door is partially opened. I prayed that our new house would not be haunted. Thusfar ok but in the upstairs bedroom there is a tiny door in one of the closets. It's actually access to the attic storage space. To me it's a monster door. Who knows what lies behind it?

Last week DH decided to sleep in that room as his back was really hurting and he wanted to sleep with the heating pad. That was true but I think it also had to do with the fact that I was snoring loud the night before. As I got the bed made up in the room, I warned him about the monster door in the closet. He rolled his eyes at me.

- yes, just like that. Well huh. Next morning over coffee he's telling me how he didn't sleep too well. Kept having dreams that MONSTERS were chasing him and trying to kill him. You can BET there's NO WAY I will EVER be sleeping in that upstairs bedroom. EVER. Told you so. Eventually when we've got everything painted we'll move our bedroom currently on the first floor to the upstairs second master bedroom. But it's all the way down the hall from the room with the monster closet. So I should be safe.
Ok, I've warned you. If you come to visit, request the downstairs guest room
Hellos to everyone else I didn't get to personally but it's time to call it a night. Catch you all tomorrow.