KenzideRhae:

And good luck with your New Year's goal!
What do you guys do when someone you know is really happy for your weight loss, but goes and talks about it to other people? Today I saw a friend I haven't seen in a while and she was surprised by my weight loss. I vaguely affirmed that yes, I've been losing weight and thanks for noticing.
A different friend (who's been very supportive, but...) said, "Tell her how much you've lost!" all excited-like. I tried to brush it off, but then the friend goes and says, "Over 50lbs so far!" I wasn't mad, but I was uncomfortable. I haven't told many people how much I've lost, and now they all know (people were all hanging out) and I didn't even tell them myself. I don't like it much. It was my thing, you know? I don't mind sharing the number with some people, but I'd rather they not share with others.
But then maybe they don't think of weight loss as the personal thing I think of it as. I don't know. I'm considering just keeping the numbers to myself from now on...