Well the saga has been continuing in my absence.
Had to leave early yesterday because daycare called me and said my son had a fever of 102. Off to the doctor to wait for 57minutes to see someone, WTH?
Anyways, he just has a cold, no ear infections, no rash, but man he was burning up, and he took it like a champ.
HEATHER!!!!!!!!! Don't give up on yourself, I am down the same as you, ok a little more, but the same milestone basically, and no one other than my wife has said anything to me, or noticed.
There are even people who know I am on a diet and they haven't said they have noticed anything.
The important thing is have you noticed? I have, there are aspects of my body that I am monitoring, and I can slowly see changes happening, common things you used to see every time you were in the mirror, or getting dressed etc.
Look for things that define your size, and monitor them and watch them get smaller.
Some of my clothes look better on me, that I know. Of course it's easier when you wear 3XL to notice when it's wearing "bigger" on you.
But I have put on a few of my 2XL shirts and noticed they are getting closer to fitting on me more like I would like them to.
I know I am only down 22 pounds, but I have seen the measurements drop, of course my belly went up 1/2 this week...wtf? I must have measured in a different spot, but my waist still went down, I think I have dropped like 6 inches now on my waist, not bad for 28 days today, I cannot complain.
It sounds like you need to sit down and have a serious talk with your man, maybe he needs to understand how hard this diet is for you, how much you are struggling to stay OP. Let him know you need encouragement and support, especially with everything else going on at work etc.
If he can't be there for you and support you, and want you to be there longer for him by being healthy, than maybe he isn't what you thought he was.
We all need support, I think if Coliep had her "dicky half" lol home more often it would make it easier on her, she knows the tools and what to say, she just doesn't always stick to them, and so do you.
We are way to big Heather, you called me out, you said you wanted to do this diet with me because it would be easier because we have similar numbers, will in the spirit of Jases "you called down the thunder, well now you've got it!"
So let's do this!!!!!
Remember we have a goal by the end of September
Coliep the 2 pound thing is nothing, depending on when you weigh, when you drank water, when you went to the restroom, all these things can effect your weight day to day.
I have made a conscious decision not to weigh myself anymore except at the weigh-in, I ended up getting discouraged or false hope day to day and I would prefer to just stay on plan and let it be a surprise.
I know easier said then done, but it's the small steps that can make this easier for all of us.
O.k. I will get down off my podium now, hope it didn't come across too much like that. I don't have all the answers, but I will be here to help support anyone that needs it.
Everyone!!! have a great and positive day.
And remember we are all here to help each other, otherwise what are we even bothering to post here for.