TWINCA ~ Since you asked
"Curious--How old is everyone? I am 45."
As far as age, I am a young 66 (I really don't know where the time has gone)! My husband is 13.5 years younger than I!

In 1970 I was married the first time at age 19, right after an 80 pound weight loss using Metrecal- a limited weight loss product like Medifast - (former husband only knew me at 100 pounds, never knowing my binge history). Boy, was he surprised when I gained 65 pounds back in a short amount of time after the marriage. He did not like me fat. I even had a stomach stapling at 210 pounds (1981- new procedure which only lasted 6 months, then staples loosened and no longer was the surgery effective. In 1985 the marriage failed after 15 years and 3 children later.
I have 3 sons (42, 38 and 36) , and 1 grandson (19) and 2 granddaughters (14 and 3.) Two of my sons live with me as well as the teenage granddaughter. My husband and I purchased a large house in 2009 with an address that is numbered
911! That was certainly a predictor of what was to come! We are here for emergencies! Never knowing a fire would necessitate one son and his daughter needing a new home and the other just wanted to save money for a home purchase (he just put offer on one last week, finally!) I also had the middle son, his wife and newborn live with us also for over a year until he finished Physician Assisting graduate school. So it was quite chaotic here.
Plus never having had a teenage daughter lends itself to quite the array of mood swings: both hers and mine!
I can handle all 100% better now that I am on Medifast!
That is just a brief scenario of my life...my husband loves me at any weight, has seen me through all the diets I've tried throughout our 31 years together (22 married) and only encourages me to do what makes me happy.
I married a winner. He loves his stepchildren and their children as his own. Story to be continued

.... (at a much later date!) Aren't you glad!
May I ask what line of work you're in?
(I was a site administrator of a large medical practice in Baltimore, Maryland. I am retired now.)