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Originally Posted by Maile
Well yesterday was a mixed day. The good news is that I need new cross trainers and have decided to buy a bright colorful pair. I am heading to Niketown next weekend! Of course I haven't seen the prices yet!!!!!!
Then I decided that since my pants seemed loose I would try on some new ones. I really do fit a size 6. So I am excited..but then have these fears..What if I buy these and I can't fit them some day as they are very fitted? So I tell myself to believe in myself and buy them.
I still am learning to trust myself and this weight loss.
Hi Maile...first of all, size 6!!!!! Take a breath and just take that moment in!!!!
Secondly...I totally relate to you on the fear of committing to the new size in clothing and wondering about the future. I think we've all been thru that.
When I got to size 4 I freaked. When I went to Old Navy who runs large, and needed a 2 I almost passed out.
I kept my one size up, which for me is a 6, so if I go up in weight (which I did by 8 lbs) I can gauge myself by having to wear the 6's and making my way back to a 4. I still look mighty fine in a 6 and I'm sure you look just as smokin' in an 8, even if you go up a few over the next year. So keep a few pair of your favorite 8's.
I think what a bunch of us are doing (the January maintainers re-boot) should be like a family reunion. The time we all take to re assess our needs and take the appropriate actions to get back to our goal weights or
whatever makes us feel "right" It's so different for all of us, but we're in some way all on the same page, however we get there.
So...enjoy your new clothing and how wonderful you feel. Set your max. weight gain and/or size allowance and you'll be fine. BTW...I'm lookin' in the mirror at myself as I say all this. I always need to remind myself the same thing. Keep believing. You have done an awesome job!
