Mez, I agree with you about no partial hysterectomy, at least not unless it is really essential to your health. I don't know how old you are, but menopause will take care of the cramps... Meanwhile, here's a suggestion that will convince you I'm crazy: when I still had periods, I always had monster cramps, and I finally realized that pain has a frequency. What I mean is that if you hum along with the pain, you should be able to find a level that matches and covers the level of the pain. And if you hum loudly at exactly the same level/frequency as the pain, you'll almost totally mask it. Of course if anyone hears you, you may end up in the looney bin...
Red, you mentioned your wayward co-worker: is he out of the slammer? And have you seen a doctor about your health? I'm particularly worried about the possibility of mumps - you can get really sick when you get them as an adult.
Update on Marble: I had an email from her today; she's doing not too bad, but is still in a lot of pain and the meds are making her itchy. Her nose has been re-attached or re-whatevered (surgery last last Tuesday), but the shoulder is in a sling and very painful. The fall was caused by a badly camouflaged (sp?) expansion joint, and she is suing. I now have her phone number and will call and check in tomorrow. I think she'll be okay, but definitely back to Day 0....
Yesterday I had a wonderfully excessive evening, lots of laughs, too many cocktails, but worth every calorie, and worth the slight headache. Today I'm still not back on target, estimated date of lift-off: Wednesday. Meanwhile I'm enjoying myself, but not too, too excessively. Although yesterday was a lovely day: I had a contract that fell through, but not soon enough for the client to avoid paying. So I arrived at work, only to have a free day!! Sometimes you get a freebie...
Fish, it sounds like maybe the problem with your writing (not in your posts, of course) is a lack of concision? Maybe if you could get some kind of a course on precis-writing it would help. In spite of the way I babble on here, I have put considerable effort into learning how make it short. It does take time and more than one rewrite, but it is very satisfying when you get there.
Gotta go. Take care, all.


I also jogged a bit, and that was after riding this morning. I also walked 50 mins to the gym in the rain!! BUT, I took the bus home....
I wish so much I could keep this up. I used to train like a wild woman. Recently, time and some sort of lack of oooomph has got me draggin'. It's a mental thing. I need a new romance in my life!! 
Why don't you do a challenge that would put your love of excess to the test...like doing excessive exercise or aiming for excessive vegetable consumption?!
No??!
But I know he really, really drinks a lot. What he did though would have gotten him a slap on the wrist and a 20 quid fine back in the U.K. Ridiculous stuff here. Somewhere between a police state and a kindergarten. That's the feeling I get at times. Oops. Better shut up. 


Good luck! 


I know that you have commented that I don't eat very much, but honestly, if I am going to lose weight, I have to keep my calories under 1500 and my exercise at at least 30 minutes a day. I can maintain at about 1800/daily and 30 minutes/daily, but anything more than that and I definitely gain. Being petite doesn't help. I keep thinking that if I were only a few inches taller (I am 5'4") I wouldn't need to lose any weight at all 

, and didn't TOTALLY humiliate myself... I predict some seriously stiff bits and pieces tomorrow.
). I got busy again at work and did not stop for lunch.