Hello!
Maggie, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry for the strife you're feeling now...but I commend you for speaking your mind, and not budging on your stand! I do believe that losing weight does give us that confidence to stand up to our spouses, when we didn't feel we could before. I sincerely hope that things work out! and big-time congrats on keeping your established good eating habits, even with the trouble.
and Maggie, wow, just 1.5 from your goal! Congratulations!
Jayme, you are also so close to your goal!! I guess I never noticed your weight stats before. Just nine pounds away! and I agree, life is too short to try to please everyone. It kinda sucks sometimes, especially when friends seem to not care about us...guess they weren't good friend material to begin with. And you're NOT fussing or complaining! Just speaking your mind. This is where we chickies can do that!
And I hope that you're not getting a virus...good vibes to ya! ~~~~~~~~
Donna, guess what I found!!!! that calorie calculation I was speaking of. I found it written on the back of an envelope that almost got trashed! haha. Well, here it is. First, take your weight, and multiply by 10. We'll do mine as an example (145 X 10 = 1450). Now, choose from the following, and multiply your number by what you've chosen:
X20% - not very active. No daily exercise, some type of sedentary job.
X30% - some daily activity; a standing-type job, moves around during the day.
X40% - Regular exerciser. This is what I chose
X50% - Very active exerciser. Professsional football player, marathon runner, etc. I don't think many people choose this one
So, we take 1450 and multiply by 40%, which gives the amount 580. Now add 580 to the first number (580 + 1450 = 2030). This final number, 2030, is the number of calories I can have to maintain, as long as I keep the same activity. And I must say that sounds pretty accurate.
I know, however, that I can have more lee-way with calories, 'cause I have built some lean muscle through the weight training (lots of sweating and OH! I can't do another!!

) and that allows me to burn more.
Hope that helps anyone! I got it from a Woman's Day magazine, which of course isn't like from the AMA

but it did sound pretty right for me.
I have a Fire Dept. Auxiliary meeting tomorrow night, and *sigh* not looking forward to it! I was President for two years; only because nobody else would do it, and the ladies all cheered me on. well, I resigned at the proper time a month ago, and then felt pressured to now be the Treasurer, because no one else would do it

but for cryin' out loud, I don't even balance my OWN checkbook! I can't figure out all these entries the previous Treasurer did, but don't want to sound like I'm criticising her...but I don't wanna do this! We have members who have never taken an official position, such as Treasurer, Secretary, etc....I just have to be honest, and tell them that I'm a good member, but a crappy Treasurer!
I kept away from the bad goodies at the staff meal table today...I did not have a single potato chip, nor did I try one of my leftover sweets (raspberry cheesecake squares, chocolate cake, apple-upside-down-cake) It was difficult! But I've got to start the habit early in the season, so I don't end up with a 7 lb. gain as I did at last season's end!
Well, I hope you're all having better weather than we are....50's, rainy, bleh! I guess we're paying for the one nice day yesterday
Good night to all!