My family has a tradition of getting chinese food for New Year's Eve. This year, DH and I ordered beef and broccoli from a local place (had a little sugar, but not much, I think), made our own brown rice, and made two dishes, General Tso's Chicken and a chicken and cashew recipe at home. We were able to use arrowroot for much of the cornstarch (yes, this was expensive, but it was a once a year thing...) and we used canola oil to fry so it wasn't a bad fat. It turned out great! I'll post the recipes sometime so you guys have them, but I just found them online.
I also had "buddhist delight" a couple of times during Lent this year. It made me have a few cravings, but it wasn't terrible. Just eating OP for a day or two on P2 made the cravings go away. Unfortunately, the employees at our local Chinese places speak very little English and are not very patient, so it's hard to find out what's in the ingredients.
I've heard the best thing is to go to Mongolian stir fry where you can pick the veggies and meats and get sauces that are safe.