I was still wearing street clothes the day I had my first.

I
never show to strangers. People see what they expect to see, and when they look at me they expect to see a fat woman, not a pregnant one. To myself & my husband, I was obviously pregnant at 11 weeks with my first, about 13 with my second, but with this one it wasn't really obvious to me until I was 18 weeks. So it's very variable, even with the same person. I *never* get the cute little pregnant belly.