Hi there-
Welcome to the board. Glad you're here.
Through OA I've gained a life that I never dreamed of. OA deals with the whole person not just the weight or the food. We work the 12 steps, and through them, we take a long, hard, honest look at ourselves, why we compulsively eat, what we fear, mistakes we've made, we learn to give control to our higher power, and clean up wreckage of the past. While we're working on all that stuff, we remain abstinent from compulsive eating, enjoy the support and love from other OA members, gain strength at meetings, and learn to trust another person by getting a sponsor.
It's hard work, but the rewards are incredible. I haven't felt alone since I joined OA. I know a group of people who fully understand the crazy compulsive thoughts about food that can take over my mind. They dont' judge me, instead they love me.
OA saved my life. I don't say that lightly. My life was spiriling downward when I finally walked through the doors of OA one year ago. If I hadn't, I would likely be dead.
OA isn't for everyone. Sometimes people just aren't ready for it. I suggest attending a couple of meetings and seeing if it's for you.
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